Hello everybody, I can’t tell you how happy I am to have landed in this forum. you all seem to help each other out, it feels like a real community except that it is virtual… can Instant shine on the cyberspace ???
Ok anyways, my name is Nad, I will be interviewing for an important position in the legal industry and I am wondering how my apparent youth will work out. The competition to get the position is quite huge.I am in my late twenties but people often think that I am in my late teens. So I constantly have to tell people my age and at some point it is frustrating because i don’t get taken that seriusly. I believe that it might work against during the recruitment process and i was hoping that maybe M-135 will help but it was out of stock when I checked.
Something else I would like to share is that regardless of my apparent youth, i just can’t seem to have light conversations. I just don’t like to talk just about weather or just about what shoes to wear tomorrow and I am often more interested in deeper exchange. People also seem to see me as too serious, too intense, too passionate and I guess, not friendly enough, however, once someone knows me, I become their best friend.
Also, it appears that I have an intense look and that it makes people ill at ease in my surrounding. When I look at someone, they can hardly sustain the look or they become embarrassed or they try to get away from my look. For me nothing is more natural than looking at someone in the eyes when talking to them but apparently I seem to scare them away as if people thought that I am scrutinizing them! I often get the comment that I am too imposing ( although I am not that tall at all ), that I come off too strong ( although I am very well mannered but I always mean what I say forcefully and I am pretty straightforward ).
So All in all, I have great bestfriends but I wish people would be less scared of me, have the ice broken and I would genuinely be happy to have more social interactions with other individuals without them sorting me out immediatly because of my genuine natural intensity and passion about life that might come to them as overbearing or overwhelming.
I need something that beats my " too much of intensity " as well as something that makes people take me more seriously age-wise…
Well I like when a girl looks me in the eyes, that means that you are paying attention to what I am saying.
I do not know the girl products but Instant shine putsyou and people around you in a good mood. I would not look into Instant Honesty that makes deeper conversation you need something lighter for your personality. Maybe Instant Opennesss would help.
I do not think I helped much as I would liked to, but someone else will and good luck with that interview and hope you get the job!!
Hello tfrankz, thanks for your time and response.
Well this weird feeling people get around me is applicable to both man and women. the two gender get equally intimidated in/by my presence and it becomes almost like a burden for me to be ME!!!
I have a long time boyfriend and he can handle me and my intensity and everything that comes with it and I truly wish other people can. It is a real pain!
and something else is that even when I don’t talk, the mere fact of my presence is intense. People, can you imagine my situation, I don’t need to talk, and yet my aura and my vibe make me intense. People just notice me. And this happens to me quite a lot of time and it is a real burden. I get the feeling that people don’t want to get close to me almost of fear of getting burned.
If only they new that I am really very caring. If only they could move beyond that perception of theirs!
This is the one time I would suggest skipping Ishine for work. Its a wonderful product but its youthful.
I suggest IO for a lighter more fun chatty vibe.
For work I suggest you get Instant sexiness A until MX134 is back which I am working on. I sent a PM asking Jas what the wait is on this one.
Instant sexiness A gives a strong independant confident alpha female vibe. It is sexy but not sexual so You can use it in a work environment easily. Men and women respond well to it.
Now if you want a Ishine kinda vibe with a little more sexy and less yourthfulness go with MX274. This is uplifting and charismatic without being youthful. its more sexy and bonding
If you have any questions just ask. Your GC is on its way
