Hello everybody. I am new here too. I am 25 year old female from AL who is half shy and half social (well, I was even worst before). Yet, I want to be more open and social in public; I want to enjoy more being with friends and also I want them to feel good being with me; shortly I want to be remembered, not only with her studies and work she does but also with other things. I also have a boyfriend; we decided to start over after a few months of break up. I want him to enjoy being with me more than usual, and wish being with me more. Shortly I want to surprise him, and surprise everybody around me. I am tired of being boring and be board at the same time. Before I registered I skimmed through the forum and I really enjoyed so far. The information here is very very helpful. I decided to try something out and see how it will work on me. I hope I will be happy with the results. Any tips or advice is greatly appreciated.
HI there and welcome to the mone forum, PheroTalk!
I see many people, including myself many years ago, just ‘accepting’ that you’re shy and not much to do about it. BUT, you have been taking progressive steps to get out of that shell. You MUST be the one to do it.
For the shyness, I’d suggest IO and IH to get you out of the rut of NOT wanting to talk to others because of what THEY may think. IO will get you bubbly to talk and will contribute to a comfortable feeling to just be around others. IShine is another social mone that gets me a comfortable to be around others feeling and others feeling like they’re relaxed around me.
IH is a deeper communications mone, which will bring UP the feelings of a Long Time friend to speak to intimately. Using this with IShine will help the convo’s go into positive territory.
Mones will only work in highlighting YOU. So, you’ll have to do most of the ‘lifting’ in your social interactions. Mones are your wing women.
Like alpha mentioned the IO and IH was what i had in mind as well. That should break out the barrier. good luck!! keeep a journal it should help in finding the perfect chemistry for you
Thank you all; very informative… I will definitely try “Instant Shine” to get me comfortable to be around others and others feeling relaxed around me. Also considering IO and IH, but at the same time IH worries me with the possible effects on the user I guess I need to know where to apply not to get affected so much.
By the way, I just completed my order and hope to receive it soon. I will update you how it goes once I start using it. To be honest, I never expect big things from anything, this is my nature; but again even a little change can be a good start for even bigger things. Who knows?
(well, I was even worst before). Yet, I want to be more open and social in public; I want to enjoy more being with friends and also I want them to feel good being with me; shortly I want to be remembered, not only with her studies and work she does but also with other things. I also have a boyfriend; we decided to start over after a few months of break up. I want him to enjoy being with me more than usual, and wish being with me more. Shortly I want to surprise him, and surprise everybody around me. I am tired of being boring and be board at the same time. Before I registered I skimmed through the forum and I really enjoyed so far. The information here is very very helpful. I decided to try something out and see how it will work on me. I hope I will be happy with the results. Any tips or advice is greatly appreciated.