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Re: How to break the resistence of ex
Hi all. Im going through something that kind of fits in with the issue on this forum. My ex-fiance and I had been together for sometime and before I met her she had gotten a DUI and then another while I was out of town for 4 months. Per her law requirements she had to go to rehab, which is an 8 week venture and she will be returning late July. A week before she left, she ended the relationship but left it on a positive note saying we could eventually date or still get married after she is back. Mainly the reasoning was that we were not as strong individually as we had been before I left town. When I returned from being out of town, I had set up plans for jobs, vehicles, places to live, etc. Well it all fell through except with her. But, I became depressed and very self-centered and it pushed her away and that combined with her emotional stress of going to rehab is what I and her parents, who still Love me and invite me to dinner weekly, have generally agreed upon as to what ended our relationship. I am seeing a therapist so that I may rid myself of this nasty little habit of becoming selfishly depressed and also to break the cycle of self-sabotaging my relationships with women. I spoke with this girl the day before she left for several hours and it was great conversation, but I wont have any contact with her from May 23-July 23 which is her term in rehab. I know her mindset is going to be different as is mine and I accept the fact that we might not get back together, but I also have never had such an amazing relationship with a woman and she even said the same thing the last time I talked to her. We Loved each other deeply and passionately. I now am getting myself taken care of so I can be the best individual I can be for her or any woman I have a relationship with, but I do want to have every oppurtunity to work it out with her once she returns. I have one month before that is and I am also planning to incorporate the use of pheromones. Im buying the A314, Instant Female Magic, Instant Honesty and Instant Openess but does anyone have any other reccomendations of what I should attempt to use? Any feedback is deeply appreciated as its gonna give me another perspective to look upon things!!!
Thank you all very much for your support and Im looking forward to getting to know everyone as this is my first post!
The_Phoenix
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but as soon as we met it was AMAZING!!! She admitted to me alot of things she learned in rehab and also that as soon as she saw me she realized how wrong she had been for trying to tell herself that she didnt Love me when she still does! She even wanted to kiss me but I decided against it cuz its not the right time. We are gonna take it slow and work some things out but I also am putting in my first order today for pheromones and I am excited to see how they work with her. Definitely goin with the