Hello everyone, so a bit about my self: I’m 24yr male student doing postgrad(research).
I’ve been spending majority of my time traveling between labs and becoming very socially awkward outside of uni. My working environment is pretty chill most of the time, but I do need to have professional meetings with different profs and clients. I consider my self as introvert, thus trying to talk with strangers and gaining information from them has always been a challenge. (some profs are racist and bitchy working with them as a gay asian student.. no fun…)
As for relationship side, I’m gay, but I don’t spread the world about it. I’ve got girls hit on me and guys calling me cute, but they all meant in ‘straight way’. I know ppl definitely notice me, but they turn away when I caught them looking.(I’ll do the same..we are all introverts.. oh good lord..) So I probably need to buckle up and talk to them or make myself more approachable.
Right now, I’m thinking to try the ‘newbie ToGo pack’, and see which will work on me. Cheers
Welcome to the forums! In here you don’t have to feel too socially awkward, everyone around here starts out by being a socially awkward person (even me). When people are racist and bitchy, I always say that its nature’s way of telling you that they actually envy your work. My teachers were also a pain in the ass, but I grew over it and actually surprised them quite some times and when I go to the alumni days they always tend to ask me some stuff. Its like having a drill sergeant as your boss, outperform him and you will succeed later, or get bashed and don’t get a job at all. University is hard, but a good university knows what they are doing.
I would also recommend to take a look at Mystery Boy besides your intro package. Many gay guys noticed better effects while wearing that and also makes you more approachable. Another one you could take a look at is 2 sprays of A314 for during your classes, gives you a more mature vibe and I think it also gives out a better sign of respect from your teachers. I think they will be still racist and bitchy, but in a lesser degree.
A little question that popped up in my mind is that you are Asian, but not local. Where exactly do you come from, where you studying now and what kind of guys you looking for? Got a feeling that you might need a more masculine mixture, but not sure.
Hey mrseeker, thank you for your kind words and suggestion, they are very thoughtful and encouraging I’ll definitely look into MB and A314, and probably bit IO to break the ice?
I was born in China and has been moving in different places with my family, then they decided to ‘dump’ me at Australia when I started high school. So I’ve been living by myself for 7yrs or so. Growing up like this makes me very independent, but more in a bad way that I prefer to handle everything alone… I feel some ppls are interested in me bu
t guys tends to be unsure about my sexuality and I’m too dumb to behave in the right way.Talking about pathetic..
I normally behave as a ‘straight guy’(sorry idk if it makes any sense) and would prefer a partner to be the same. Were you suggesting a masculine mixture would be ideal in this case?
If you want to go for the more masculine mixture for ‘straight guys’, I would go for Ammo & TUTH. For me its ideal to “get the ladies”, if you know what I mean by that. Mystery Boy does also a great job in that case, even though its aimed for the gay people the pheromones that are in there also seem to attract woman (i don’t wan to say its a masculine spray, but it gives you that manly vibe that you need).
If I give some ramblings of my mind, then I would say try out p75, but note that MX and putatives are experimental mixtures. I found p75 a bit too harsh on the touch, gives me a bit too heavy boost of masculinity and makes me feel like I just pumped myself with adrenaline but I do notice that in the right dosage it gives you that push to do something you would never do normally.
A good bit of advice on my part: Get out of the closet and stop being the shy guy when you are using pheromones. A real guy is not shy, but he goes for it and does not feel introvert. He is the alpha in the house and does what he does best: Make the other part feel comfortable around him. Instead of waiting for other guys to make their move, you make the move. Those things cannot be done with pheromones but that is personality and a bit of training . IO does also seem to help a lot with it, but I do note that if I wear some Ammo and just go for it, I tend to have the best results. If I just sit around, girls don’t get any attraction in me at all.
Hey Chemsnail, 欢迎！ I can’t be of much help with regards to advising you on pheromones (as I’m a newbie as well), but I can tell you that it takes two hands to clap, your actions/body language and the pheromones. You need to give yourself a little nudge to take baby steps to opening up to people. It will complement whatever pheromones you intend to use. Smile and let your personality shine! 不要害羞！
Maybe the problem lies with you staying on in the closet.
You’re guarding yourself all the time and you always tend to look for the wrong vibe: the one you think society will be okay with, rather than the one that’ll make you feel fine and at home. Now that’s an issue you’ll have to deal with, in an effort to know, understand, and nurture the real you.
Regarding pheromones… If you are the masculine type of gay, you might consider exploring the A314, specially in professional set-ups, meetings. The objective here is for you to get some mone-induced confidence, a little change in posture(yep, A314 does that), and deeper, manly voice (some users reported these while on InstantGentleman).
On gay relationships, I guess you’ll have some good development on this area if you’ll come out in the open. Otherwise, you’ll keep on sending out confusing signals. Reading your posts though made me believe that you’re on the fem side. And it’s gonna be hard for you unless you come out in the open. Anyway, MysteryBoy will provide some good outcome for you. Use it on a night out, at a party, or wherever people’s guards are down and you’ll get ka-boom! After all, majority of gay-men who tried MB reported such.
And oh! Yeah! Your $25 Intro GC is now ready for use too! Check your inbox and spam folders to get it now and start lighting up your gay lifestyle with the mones.
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I see you’ve already placed an order and used your GC. Hope you received it fine and now already kicking ass on helping you up with battling shyness. .
Don’t forget to share your test results my friend. You can create your own journal here to keep notes of your dosages and usages, plus its different effects, including those you consider a “failure”. Journal helps a lot. Its your own phero time machine.
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working with them as a gay asian student.. no fun…)
. IO does also seem to help a lot with it, but I do note that if I wear some Ammo and just go for it, I tend to have the best results. If I just sit around, girls don’t get any attraction in me at all.
Check your inbox and spam folders to get it now and start lighting up your gay lifestyle with the mones.