Hi solarjm and welcome!
You are in the right place! Your very best bet is to look at the Men’s Ultimate Kit as you would get everything to from the instant line plus more like the MX297 and A314 in spray form. This way you get to test and see what is the very best fit for you with no guess work. This is the very best option to start with. But I will still list a few in case you want to get just a few as at the end of the day it is up to you to decide what is best for you and your budget.
I see we are the same age so there is a lot that can help you out. I would like to hear more about your goals and maybe age range of your targets and what you are looking to achieve to really make the best suggestions.
A314 This one would be best to start with for work/business. Will command the respect and authority just be prepared to take the lead to get the maximum benefits out of this one. Being 37 it can be very useable for dating as well and help you attract higher end women for you. I typically use 2 drops with 1/2-1 full a spray to sexualize it for dating and attraction.
Ammo For dating this will be your very best bet to start with. Very balanced and nice cologne scent. If you get in the scented version I would suggest sticking to this only for a while because it is cologne strength scent and your cologne may clash with this one. You can get in the Stealth version, but just know that 2 of the pheromones have a natural scent to them. But this way you can use your cologne if you prefer with it this way. Has pheromones in this one for attraction, status, and comfort/talking so you can not go wrong with it.
The above 2 I suggested should be the ones you start with for either work or dating and should be the best choice to build off of down the road.
TUTH This one is highly sexual and a little goes a long way. Whatever you do start with Ammo and don’t come out with this one right away solo because it can be perceived as coming on to strong. This one is best used when you have built up rapport with a woman.
Now what you can do and this I find very effective for me is test both your Ammo and A314 first and find your best dose. Say your best dose with A314 is 3 drops or 2 sprays(if you get the spray form) what you can do is tone it back 1 drop or spray and then try adding 1/2 spray of this to sexualize the A314 and what will happen is the rest of the stuff will help buffer the TUTH and make it more useable for day use.
You can also do this with Ammo as well. When you have exposed a woman with Ammo a few times with 2-3 sprays you can do the same thing with the Ammo and cut it back 1 spray and add 1/2 spray of TUTH and it will provide more sexual attraction without being overbearing.
IShine This is more a social but goes well with everything. Will boost your confidence and put everyone in a great mood. You can use for work, dating, family gathering and anything else you can think of. A plus is this will bring out even more attraction out of the A314 and Ammo.
These are the main ones I would look at. They all can help you I just think you will get the most out of these to start with.
As far as the putatives it is usually best to start with the instant line and then get these down the road as these are more experimental. If you can tell me more what are your goals I can at least make sure you are looking at the right ones though. I have tested many of these things and are in my journal and the link is below if you are interested. P96 I agree with totally and will actually work very well with the A314. Ammo, and TUTH for sure. But if you tell us more I can make sure you are looking at the right ones at least.
If you need anything or have questions at all just post as we are one big family and here to support each other.