Hi Everyone,
I’m new to phermones and I’m curious and skeptical if they work. I’m a 31 year old female in northern California and am not confident in my appearance. I’ve been divorced for 3 years, single mother of 2, a 6 1/2 year old son and a 4 year old daughter and it’s just so hard to make new friends let alone find a boyfriend. I’m attractive but I need help attracting people to me. What I’d hope to get from trying phermones is a build of confidence and radiance. Is there anything that will work for me??? Please help!!
Hi there,
Welcome to the forums.
Think everyones a bit skeptical at first but its always fun to try something new.Im still testing them out myself.The first purchase is free anyway with the 25$ gift certificate and 5$ for signing up in the store so can take it for a test run with the to-go bottles.The service here is really good also and they usually include a free gift in your first order which is awesome.
Can check out this link for more information on how to qualify for the gift certificate.Think your almost there,probably just need to describe your personality a bit more so that you can be helped a bit better.
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
Im not really familiar with the female products but you can check out the stickies in the womens section and im sure some of the women on the forum will be giving you advice shortly.Instant shine would probably help with the confidence and radiance though since it makes you feel good and everyone around you feel good so would make you more confident and seem to shine.Instant openness would also be pretty good as an ice breaker and for getting people to open up and to talk to you more.Not sure which products help attract men though so may have to wait a bit for a womans point of view(>_<)Can check out the link below in the mean time.
Anyways,welcome to the forum and im sure you will fit right in since everyone if friendly and helpful on the forum.(^_^)All the best on trying out pheremones for the first time.
Thank you!! Well a little about myself, I’m pretty outgoing and down to earth, a bit of a romantic at heart but although I believe in romance, I don’t think romance believes in me hahaha. I got married at 20, divorced 8 years later and here I am 3 years later at 31 ready to settle back down. I have self confidence and self image issues. (I’m having difficulties ulpoading a picture). I’m a little overweight but still proportioned in all the right ways. I love to laugh and make new friends. If I were skinny I would consider myself very beautiful, but I struggle with the weight because currently I am 5’2" and wear a size 14/16 and would categorize myself as average or thick. I have my BS degree in communications so I am very friendly and easy to talk to. I love to laugh and enjoy whatever company I am with. I feel that most woman find me as a threat due to their own insecurities and therefore it is hard to make friends. If my son’s friends are married the mothers usually don’t want to be friends but the fathers are very friendly. I am a business professional and act/dress accordingly. My entire marriage, my ex put me down, verbally abused me and made me feel less of myself. After I had my first child, he said he didn’t want to have sex with me anymore and after our 2nd child i found out he was cheating. therefore although he is a complete idiot because I AM sexy and confident (to an extent) I am still overcoming this abuse I know now that he did it to make himself feel better about himself but nonetheless I am lonely and just want to be more social. Instant openness sounds like it might give me the boost I need to feel better about myself. Thank you.
Hey Curious24, as a fem that has a parallel experience w/people liking to feel good about themselves by putting me down; the first order is to find the resources that will put you in a positive self image. The mones won’t do the work for you, they’ll just enhance what you are putting out. You need to be inline with them. Don’t try to make the mones compensate for what you’re feeling.
Acceptance of what’s in the mirror is key. Accept it, don’t fight it. In accepting yourself, you then open the door to working with your issues; not against them.
Since you’re so easy to talk to, I humbly suggest Instant Honesty rather than IO. IH promotes better communication; quality conversations and a certain level of bonding. I think you would also like Instant Shine - does what it says. Gives you a “shine” and a youthful glow that people want to be near and do hang around for.
I also get a great confidence boost with IS/B. When it’s back in stock (you can get an email notification of when that happens in the store) get some. It’s an attractant, but for me, personally, I’ve found the attraction thing can be muted by less sprays to give a friendly ‘fan club’ effect from people around you.
Those are my personal recommendations - and only suggestions. You can read some of the journals in the womens section - have a look at some of the newer members (of which I’m one) and see the journaled progress that the fems make with their mones.
If you were skinny, that asshole would have found something else to put you down with. Don’t be wishing for something that will happen when you’re ok with who you are. He’s an asshole; like I said.
Remember to do the GC link - but I think your second post will be good; Mickaelia will be by to issue the GC, and you can try some for almost free. Just remember to tell us how you found this forum.
They do work. Go look at some journals and prepare for some fun. Everything’s about to change - and we’re here to encourage and cheer you on. Welcome again - you’re gonna love it here. And the whole Androtics team are just wonderful peeps.
Hi again,
Thats pretty bad what your ex did to you.It sucks when people have to put down others to feel better about themselves.Had a friend who’s an amazing person who went through something similar.All it takes is good friends who think your amazing too and accepting how wonderful you are to get you through it.
I wouldn’t worry too much about your weight.Particularly if your still well proportioned.Usually we think were heavier than we are and its the personality and the person inside that really matters.You sound like a very nice person and im sure you will be able to overcome your self confidence and self image issues(^_^)
All the best and hope you get the results your looking for.
Hi.
Welcome on board.
Talk to you soon.
Welcome to pherotalk Curious24!
I see that you already received some top notch advise especially from astrea and I agree 100% with her.
I hope these mones and the support and the ladies will have help you gain that confidence and on your way to loving and accepting yourself.
Your gc was issued! 