Hi there,
Welcome to the forums.
Think everyones a bit skeptical at first but its always fun to try something new.Im still testing them out myself.The first purchase is free anyway with the 25$ gift certificate and 5$ for signing up in the store so can take it for a test run with the to-go bottles.The service here is really good also and they usually include a free gift in your first order which is awesome.
Can check out this link for more information on how to qualify for the gift certificate.Think your almost there,probably just need to describe your personality a bit more so that you can be helped a bit better.
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
Im not really familiar with the female products but you can check out the stickies in the womens section and im sure some of the women on the forum will be giving you advice shortly.Instant shine would probably help with the confidence and radiance though since it makes you feel good and everyone around you feel good so would make you more confident and seem to shine.Instant openness would also be pretty good as an ice breaker and for getting people to open up and to talk to you more.Not sure which products help attract men though so may have to wait a bit for a womans point of view(>_<)Can check out the link below in the mean time.
Anyways,welcome to the forum and im sure you will fit right in since everyone if friendly and helpful on the forum.(^_^)All the best on trying out pheremones for the first time.