So I’m Ashley!
I am outgoing while amongst friends otherwise very shy, don’t like attention to be drawn to me. I’m 28 with 2 kiddos!
So I’ve been with my bf for a year and in the beginning the sex was amazing!!!
Now I’m lucky if I get it once a month . Our relationship is in a lot of trouble, I love him and he loves me but we just can’t get on the same page. I wear all my emotions on my sleeve and am not afraid to express them. He is polar opposite! He gives nothing away and that has caused problems he often comes off as uninterested, aloof and sneaky. He works a lot! Sometimes close to 100hrs a week. He has gained some weight since we’ve been together but I don’t mind! More to cuddle with ! We are always cuddling! I don’t want to give up on this relationship but I go home sad after every weekend. I don’t know how much more I can take! He recently lied to me too which put a huge dent in our relationship (it wasn’t a serious lie, just over details) but still it deeply hurt me that he felt the need to lie.
Anyways sorry for the book but I want to get the spark back! I want him to be more sexual and open and honest with me! Our relationship is on its last leg! So what do you recommend? It will be for me to wear around him!
Welcome to this forum and thanks for introducing yourself to the community.
Honesty? This calls for Instant Honesty, for sure. That products helps connect with someone on a deeper level, plus it tends to help people speak their mind and lets untold truths be told. For this reason, you might want to beware of its self-effects by spraying it on your wrists or hands rather than near your face.
To help rekindle the attraction and sexual side, you’ll want Instant Sexiness B. It will help send out an attractive sexy nice girl vibe. You’ll also want to have a look at the DHC (Drive him crazy) oil. I hear its potent stuff for ladies hehe.
You will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy. It will be sent by email by one of the forum moderators once they check eligibility.
You can also take a look at the Ladies Journals and find out other mixes/combos using pheromones other than what is being recommended above.
Your GC is now in your email.
Happy Pheroing!
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I commend you for opening up and believe me you are not alone on this. Actually I am like the women in my marriage as I am the one that wears my emotions and feelings in the marriage and my wife never displays anything just like your BF. Just know that you are not the only one and we all have a story here, so feel welcome and you are certainly not alone.
I have tested some of the women’s pheromones just so I can help with some of the newer members just like you and the link is below if you are interested and I created an easy to use guide and the women’s pheromones are highlighted in pink. While pheromones can not fix everything, they do help and are part of a much bigger package which is to be a better you.
What I would do to start with is look at the Female Wardrobe as it will have everything you need to get started in one easy to use kit.
I would start off with the IS/B solo and see where it gets you, then test the IS/A and then use the one that fits you best. The IS/B is more a cute type of kitten vibe and goes well with most people, where IS/A is more attention grabbing and more in your face.
Then the other 3 are socials IShine, IO, and IH.
The IShine will boost your confidence and put him in a good mood. One of my favorites as it goes well for any environment and situation.
IH will be probably for you one of the most important one to help with the bonding and promote deep conversations and to help get to the root of the problems that exist.
IO I would save for last probably and the reason is being that you have been together for a while he is already open to you. IO is more an ice breaker and will get people chatty and is good for meeting new people.
Here is the very best plan I can put together for you and this would be after you solo test each one because you will need to understand each one so you will know how to adjust each thing.
I would wear the IS/B as your main pheromone to have the attraction there and start off with this one. I would wear this over maybe a week to help bring the attraction back.
Then I would wear you IS/B and IShine together and what this will do is put him in a good mood and the IShine will also help capitalize on the attraction to and work with the IS/B and this should really help build things up in this area. The IShine will put him in a good mood and help put him at ease from all the stress of working.
Now this may be the most important part here. I would wear the IS/B and IShine setup and introduce the IH. I would put the IH on back of hands of on wrists and work on trying to talk with your hands and keep them as close as possible to his nose without being obvious and what this will do is hit him the hardest with this one. I say this is most important because this will promote the bonding and deep conversations which is very much needed for you right now. Just be prepared to hear anything that he may say and work thru it. This will get to the heart of any underlying problems that are in the relationship.
I hope this will help you out and if you have any questions at all or need anything feel at home here and we are real people with real problems so don’t feel alone on this at all. Please do feel welcome and we are all here to help and support each other and what has kept me here all this time is how wonderful it is with the people really with no one judging about anything.
. Our relationship is in a lot of trouble, I love him and he loves me but we just can’t get on the same page. I wear all my emotions on my sleeve and am not afraid to express them. He is polar opposite! He gives nothing away and that has caused problems he often comes off as uninterested, aloof and sneaky. He works a lot! Sometimes close to 100hrs a week. He has gained some weight since we’ve been together but I don’t mind! More to cuddle with 
! We are always cuddling! I don’t want to give up on this relationship but I go home sad after every weekend. I don’t know how much more I can take! He recently lied to me too which put a huge dent in our relationship (it wasn’t a serious lie, just over details) but still it deeply hurt me that he felt the need to lie.