Hi Jia, Dee, and everyone here!
I like the mission to ?eradicate loneliness and boredom?. I’ll rephrase it positively, to live a full, energetic sapio-sexual life until the body and medical science just can’t keep it going. ![]()
One of my favorite quotes is: “Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - champagne in one hand - strawberries in the other - body thoroughly used up - totally worn out and screaming WOO HOO - What a Ride!”
I’m an tall gent in early 60’s living in the Pacific Northwest who enjoys both a very long stable marriage and the permission to safely play with younger women. A very lucky guy, indeed. I’ve found that 25-40 yo women are generally best suited to me: more energetic yet also experienced, so we can build on that; they are more interested in me (especially the ?old souls?), and we can devise a special relationship. That includes luscious kissing, sensuous sensuous touch and massage, and hot sex.
Some of the experiences have been OK with memorable highlights, then later fallen a bit flat; while others have been fantastic ? and I want to keep a couple of them fresh, alive and exciting for both of us. Most women are caucasion, but also a mix (pun) of asian and black, typical range of heights and physiques.
I’m here to see how pheremones might augment what is already going pretty well, I guess in two ways:
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When I first meet her, helping the woman be emotionally and mentally open to enjoying a fun sensuous exploring relationship. There are so many uncertainties and obstacles that can get in the way. *
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When we are in our romantic rendezvous, I’d like to turn up the heat so she is uninhibited, horny as hell, will explore new things she’s thought or fantasized about, and won’t stop. Some women are passive, letting me ?do whatever? - but that gets old; I want a passion partner.
Obviously I also need to learn mechanics like timing, amount to use, sequence of which and when.
I don’t have a lot of money to spend on this, so imagine that 2 or 3 would be to start, and learn how to use them well. Then maybe expand from there.
While I appreciate there are folks here who can research, try and discuss or journal in detail, I don’t have that time (busy with nonprofit and other activities) - so your experience distilled into advice that is suited to my situation would be VERY much appreciated … and I will follow it, and try it out.
Thanks in advance for your kind welcome to this special community!
TH*