hey everybody!
my name is Kelly, and i’m a 20 yr old student in Chicago. I found this forum today and it’s a little overwhelming :o but… i’m just so intrigued!
See, i don’t even really wear fragrances, but about a year ago, my sister got married (i know the two may seem unrelated, but stay with me - i promise it gets better!). For her bachelorette party, we did this whole… shall we say “personal pleasure” party? It was really fun, and I ended up bying a product called Pure Instinct. It smelled really good, and actually sort of mixed with my own body scents over time - my sister and i each got a bottle, but when we wore it, it smelled totally different on her than on me. cool, huh?
Anyway, it said it had pheromones and stuff in it, and i didn’t really know whether that was true, or if it even had an effect. But i did feel good when i wore it, and even the thought of extra-sexy vibes gave me a confidence boost. Unfortunately, I spilled the whole thing one day, and that was sort of the end.
But today i went online to try and find some of it to get again. As i was looking for it, i ran across all sorts of other “pheromone” products, and reviews saying that some were legit and others were not. Finally I stumbled upon this forum, which seems to be the most helpful. From what I’ve gathered (or rather, been completely unable to gather), Pure Instinct isn’t really concerned with establishing itself as a legit pheromone product, so i’m guessing it’s not. If anyone knows, i’d be curious.
Regardless, my interest is definitely piqued in actual pheromone products now. But i have no idea where to start! As far as what i’m looking for… i dont really know. I am a confident girl in most ways - I know that i’m smart and funny, and people have always opened up to me. I’ve often been told that I have a good aura or that I’m really approachable - which is often evidenced by the fact that strangers talk to me all the time for no reason.
The thing i’m NOT at all confident about is being sexually attractive, or even pretty. I sort of assume that men won’t be physically attracted to me, so even when I have a great rapport with someone, I always end up giving off friend vibes.
I don’t think i’m really looking to get into a relationship right now, but… i think i just want to feel sexy. And I want to get out of the friend habit. I want to stop assuming that i’m not physically attractive.
Now perhaps these issues would be better solved by a therapist than pheromones, but… 
As for more practical issues:
where do i start?
Instant Sexiness sounds kind of neat. I like the sound of Instant Shine, too, but it seems like it might be geared more toward men than women, what with the whole “young fit man” vibe.
Also, should i probably get a fragrance to wear over it? From the sounds of some posts, it seems like these can be smelly… Should I go ahead and get the Pure Instinct because i like the fragrance? Or should i avoid it in case it actually does have some pheromones and i don’t know how they will interact with other products?
Yikes. Sorry for the excessively long first post. Like i said - its all so intriguing, and a lot of information to absorb at once. Any advice would be much appreciated!
