Hello! I ordered TUTH 5mcg (before posting on this intro forum) and didn’t have any luck with my 39yo Hispanic S/O. I think I went into this, if I may borrow a term, “Spray and Pray”. Have tried other brands (Raw Chem, Health Time) and those were also no-go. Been together for a little over three years but her " motivation" has faded.
Neither one of us drink, smoke, or do drugs.
Will try one more time with mones.
Suggestions are welcomed!
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Welcome to PheromoneTalk, ironcladbarrel! 
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Your choice of username is interesting. If it reflect the real you, then perhaps your agressiveness and the TUTH at 5mcg did not play well with your S/O.
Bedroom romance is not about sex only, or the actual interlocking of bodies. You have to take into consideration the foreplay part, which is basically the most important part of the meal.
No one can’t eat a steak without preparing and cooking it, right?
I think you must invest in that area. The sex part is a given, you are in a relationship, you’ve been doing it in the past, no need to remind her about it by putting on strong vibes that’s basically telling her that you are in a big need for a humpa.
It’s one of the reason why some of the TUTH users failed to see the light of succes with TUTH alone. If you’ll go back to our description, TUTH will only serve it’s purpose when used around women who have been entertaining the thought of banging you too. Otherwise, even if she’s the GF or the wife, TUTH will dud you out.
Try the AMMO + IShine combo first. Stop reminding her of the hump project. Instead, start reminding her about how attractive you are and how happy she is around you. Yeah, play it cool. This is a hunt, not a buy, so control yourself from jumping right in, never thinking that she, after all is yours. Think back on what did you do back then to get her, did you cook for her? Dated her out, surprised her with something? Anything she likes? Do those again. Remind her. And every time, close the night with one spray of your TUTH but do not engage first. Just expose her and wait. TUTH will tell her again you are horny, and since you are not asking, she’ll take it as you showing respect and just waiting for her to approve.
Girls have a soft heart you know. She will give in eventually. And when she does, spray a couple of TAC to make sure she’ll never forget how right her decision is.
Happy Pheroing!
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I think Dee gave you some good advice. The sex comes out of the relationship, not the other way around. You will get further with some finesse than you will trying to brute force the situation with 'none. Pheromones are like a subtle hint. She won’t take the hint if things are wonky.
Try some CTTM. Get some heart to heart conversation going. But be prepared to hear anything and LISTEN. Carefully. People get all caught up in the day to day stuff, and women often need to feel that connection if you want to … “connect” so to speak.
Relationship advice from an old married guy …
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Perhaps the 5 MCG was too much.
Also, I’ve found that in order for TUTH to be effective for me I needed to buffer it.
Maybe try half spray TUTH or ammo.
Hello Ironcladbarrel,
Welcome! I agree with the others. I am married myself and from experience I have found that in order to get to what us guys want more of which is the sex, we have to re-connect with our SO in others ways first.
You did not go wring with the TUTH, but it is best used later on. What you will want to do is work on getting to the root of any issues you may have in the relationship first. You still need something for attraction and I would look at starting off with Ammo first. Ammo is very balanced and also has a pheromone for comfort/talking to! I would start here first. Now it may take a little bit of time for her to adjust to this “new you” at least a few days. I see you posted in Jdub and my joint journal The Race Code. So what is so great about Ammo is that it is so balanced and you both are very close if I remember right in ethnic background so the Ammo should help you out because it is balanced and will take pretty much what your base is and just enhance it.
So I would start off with Ammo and give her a few days to adjust, then maybe bring some flowers home to her as something as simple as this will go very far. I would start here.
After say week 1 goes by and she has adjusted to your new Ammo signature I would then maybe add some IH to your Ammo as this will provide the bonding and deep conversations that is needed, and plus will help to get to the root of the real problems and why things have gone stale. Just be prepared to hear what she may have to say and this may be the hard part. Now I have gone through this same thing and it was hard for me to not get upset with my SO over some of the some of the things she said and it took a lot out of me not to get angry. It may be hard, but try to work thru it as there is light at the end of the tunnel.
After this I would then work the TUTH in and she should be more open and things should get back to how they were and more sex and love making.
If anything else Ammo, and IH would go very far for you. I agree with the TAC and also P96 is worth looking at as well if you are researching single molecules. If you need anything at all man just post or you can even send me a PM and I will respond. Good Luck!!!
Thank you all for your advice!
Dee…my nic I guess reflects my introverted self. I’m not the aggressive/type A. Totally opposite unfortunately.
Ok, after some experimentation, would like to report some results on IS and Ammo. Both mones are having an affect on me! It’s been a rollercoaster for me and not my SO.
Will try the free P121 in 6% neroli.
I’m actually referring to the sexual aggressiveness.
Thanks for clarifying though. I guess you’ll have to start with the socials then. Glad to see that IShine is showing some light.