I’ll admit, I’m really new to this. I remember hearing about bottled pheromones on infomercials in the past and recently I was browsing Amazon to buy some new perfume and different brands were popping up in the “things I would like” section. So I started checking into it more… but before I go on… let me introduce myself
Hi, I’m Sara. I’m a girl and I’m 19 years old from the little old state of Arkansas in the USA.
It’s not that I’m unattractive necessarily… I have a nice face and pretty hair and smile. I do have a big nose that I have difficulty EVER getting used to, and it is a confidence downer for sure. I’m also really, really skinny. I’m about 5’1 and almost 90 pounds. It’s just genetics, but when I look at myself I think I look sick. Everyone else around me is jealous of my thin legs. I can eat and eat and hardly ever gain. Sigh… in all honesty, although it sounds like a dream to some… it sucks. Basically, I’m really self-conscious about myself, when I know I shouldn’t be. I’m incredibly shy and have problems starting conversation with all kinds of people, from teachers to even some of my family. I made friends in high school but now that I’m in college I just can’t work myself up to talk to anyone. I’ll occasionally get people to talk to me first but then I say something awkward and it’s all over.
I just want to be able to make friends easier, and to of course feel much better about how I look. Confident.
Looking around this site I’ve found there’s basically 4 pheromones for women on the Androtics Direct website: Instant Shine, Instant Sexiness, Instant Openness, and Instant Honesty (all in the To-Go forms)… which one would you think is best for me?
I’ve read on how pheromones work, even though I don’t know all the minuscule details. I think reading around on this website will definitely help me out though. I’d love to learn so much more and move my life into a new direction!
Thats good that you have a nice face and a pretty hair and smile.A good smile always brightens up other peoples days(^^)Must be difficult to not gain any weight at all when you eat.I can understand not being confident and being shy.I was like that when i was in high school.Definitely not a fun thing to be (><)Hmm,sounds like you worry a lot about what other people will think about you and it makes it difficult for you.You just need to believe in yourself and the amazing person that im sure you are and im sure everything will fall into place.Its difficult but worth it in the end(^_^)Hmm,you could check up on some books by leil lowndes also if your interested.Her books are pretty good for when your shy and need some help.I quite like reading them and her stories.
For your situation,i would go with instant shine and instant openness.The instant shine will make you and the people around you feel good.When your feeling good,youll feel happier and more confident and people will want to be around you.The instant openness will make you and the people around you feel more chatty.If they talk more,youll have to do less work to start and keep a conversation going.Could look into some instant sexiness too since theres no harm in getting a bit more male attention and im sure it will boost your confidence(^^)Good luck and hope they will be able to help your life and make your realize what an amazing person you are inside.Dont hesitate to ask if you want to know anything and Mickaelia will be around in a day or 2 to issue your gift certificate and you will be able to get right to ordering.Looking forward to hearing how it goes for you(^^)
I totally understand your situation, social anxiety is not fun nor is it easy. There are a few products that can help, though.
The first I would recommend for you is Instant Openness, which will relax both you and those around you, everyone will be friendlier and conversation will flow more easily.
Instant Shine is a great mood booster, it will enhance your mood as well as the moods of those near you. You will give off a happy glow that others will want to be around.
Those two would be the best for you to start with, and they both help with confidence, but remember, they’re not magic potions, what they do is make things easier. You still have to do most of the work.
Instant Sexiness/B will enhance your femininity in a soft, sexy way, it may complement your personality very well.
I hope this helps, and if you have any questions just ask! Also, you really should pop over to the womens section, do some research, ask any questions, you can even start your own journal there if you like.
You’ve gotten some excellent posts already, and even from the indomitable SillyKitty! She’s a cool lady who knows her mones. I would just emphasis the IS and IO for you to start out your mone usage.
Personally, I love the IShine, happy to be around you vibe with a ‘you’re looking younger’ vibe that it puts out. Can’t get enough of that!
Glad you’re looking around and checking out all things mones around here!
Plenty of gems of knowledge for you, especially in the Women’s section of this site.
All the pheromones in the world or plastic surgery will not make you love you. You have to come the conclusion as most of us have on this forum that you are made the way you are for a reason and you are amazing and beautiful.
All of us have insecurities, even the super models who have everyone telling them daily they are perfect etc etc.
Think of how boring it would be if we all looked the same or had the features we wanted. Differences are beautiful and so called flaws embrace them.
I too had an issue with so much my European nose that seem to just be the highlight of pics , my hair, my complexion etc etc. I had to realize in loving me which is a mind set when I start looking in the mirror I don’t see those things the way I use to.
Of course, it doesn’t mean be complacent and not try to improve yourself but if you don’t have the confidence to start of with , when the improvements come you still won’t be satisfied or happy.
