Hi all my names abbreviated by n.m. call me pinkpull because im trying to pull a male towards me. Im 21 female im shy and a little awkward a bit flirty when i look at someone i like. Im from California. I want to attract someone at work but i dont want it “out there” like no one should know. Just to see what kind of person he is and because we will be training together i dont wanna have awkwardness i wanna be close with my partner and have fun while doing my job well. He mentioned he has a gf who got mad at him for watching a game once. Hes so confident really must like what he does for a living because hes good at it and has done it for a while. Maintains his grooming at work a lot must be because of other females and the one he has isnt too serious? and yet a quiet guy doesnt really ask much about me. I wanna get him to want me.
What do you suggest for someone to be more comfortable,trusting,open, and attracted to you?
Also, i could use one for a lttle more respect from female bosses.
You might be interested in Instant Shine to make you stand out from the competition, Instant Sexiness to unleash your charms and Instant Openness to get him talking and open up to you.
But I am a guy, lol. Our good friend Lillian will probably come by and give you an astounding lady’s point of view .
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I am also with Conjurator here: I think Instant Shine and Instant Sexiness are really good helpful things. On top of that, try to get rid of your shyness and go for it. You will never know what happens next. I went from a rather shy guy to a confident guy who knows what he wants to do and although I sometimes be a bit too overconfident, I think its a really good help if besides wearing perfume also try to be confident in yourself and how you look.
You said he has a girlfriend? And how does he think about her? If he is more into her than into other girls, it usually means that he loves her. If he is more into going out without her, and does not care too much about her, then you might have a chance. But note that with guys, if they quickly lose interest in someone else, that might backfire on you. Be prepared for that, but also know that you might put up a fight. Getting a boyfriend from someone else is always a struggle, and you need to keep your fight up high or else you will end up on the losing end.
Welcome to the forum!!! The gentlemen certainly gave you great recommendations and do be careful in the work environment. It’s not impossible.
I agree fully with the commercial line recommendations that Conjurator has set up for you. I will also warn that you will likely find yourself collecting more attention than just this particular man’s. IH can help build a deeper bond if you two are training together and he’ll feel like he has a “connection” with you as you spend more time in a smaller space or in each other’s company working. You will also get to some pretty good conversations with IH as well…HOWEVER
To add to Mr. Seeker’s very realistic information…let’s say you DO get this gentleman, you will also may feel you have to compete with the other females at work potentially oggling him regardless of whether you do or not. If you are the jealous sort…and be VERY real with yourself about this, this situation could get ugly very fast. There are some companies that have employment laws that can make this situation complicated or impossible with both of you at the same company.
I can vouch for the possibility of it working as I met my boyfriend while we were working (separate departments of the publishing house) but for a special project we had worked together almost daily via phone and in person for a few months. We would later date and have been together two years, though I was still working field assignment in between that took me away from a routine desk job…The distance from daily contact with each other assisted our situation. It helps that he had worked a field assignment before as well. It does however take two parties interested in making it work. (have no fear I don’t use any of the forum stuff, posts comments or otherwise for work aside from the mones that I apply and wear, no one knows what it is and I’m not telling except for you lot)…my little secret.
In regard to the fact that he has a gf? Karma may come back to bite you if he quickly loses interest in you as well…do consider that…and what does it say about him that he’ll shop around while dating, unless they aren’t serious…at which point…that might as well be your situation.
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You are definitely going to want IS/A or IS/B. The B is the softer version. The A version may help with respect but may agitate the other women to. Maybe Lillian can offer a suggestion for the better one.
You already got great suggestions. As far as the guy I think you need to wear a good combo around him and get him outside of work for a cup of coffee or lunch or something then work on him.
I gave the IS/A a whirl today and have been seriously procrastinating on the post… I WILL get to it tonight, promise.
What I learned from IS/A…it’s punch you in the face, FIRE ENGINE RED LIPSTICK type of mone…for me at least, I comboed it with an experimental mone that toned it down…but Justin is right…
Women may want to “knife” you as it can scream threat if not handled properly. Some men also don’t care for IS/A…but it’s hard to tell without trying. Customarily the recommendation is to the softer B variant, which is my favorite…like a little black dress with full set of pearls. I have never had to even attempt to reach for a door wearing IS/B.
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Great recommendations above.
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