Hi there. 20-something female here who doesn’t usually have trouble attracting men. I’d love a bit of an edge the next time I bump into a particular guy. Any tips on what to try? TIA!
Hi Dulcette,
Welcome to this forum.
How old is the guy in question? Tell us about your personnality. And about that guy’s personnality? What kind of an edge do you think you need? These informations will help 
. Do you have other goals besides hitting that guy? Also, what country are you from?
By telling us more about yourself, you will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy.
Hope to hear from you.
Hi, Welcome to the forum and to the world of pheromones.
Would recommend you to look at : Instant sexiness and IH. I/sexiness will add to your sexual appeal. It comes in two variations A and B. You may read more about these here on this forum.
IH will deepen his trust on you and will you a trust worthy person vibes.
Also you can read mre about female products under female journals to have a more idea.
Take care, keep posting
Thanks for your replies (and your specific recs, Spectrum). I feel weird about giving out so much info, heh, but…the guy is in his early 30s. He is very aloof and has trouble opening up with women. (Though no trouble communicating.) Definitely a casual dater. I’m bubbly and naturally very flirty…a perfect female pick-up artist, except I have extremely low self-esteem. I’m usually a great flirt despite this because I don’t care about any one particular guy, but when I do (as I do now, clearly), I get more nervous. I know this guy is attracted to me, and we’ve fooled around a bit in the past but not gone all the way. I believe he has misgivings because I am already in a(n open) relationship. I’m in the US.
My #1 goal is to go all the way with him. Secondary goal would be to hook him for longer and have a more serious, extended thing with him. Admittedly, I love it when guys obsess over me and fall head-over-heels in love with me. So…I need whatever edges will help me. Sexiness, confidence? Get him to trust me/put him at ease? Thanks!
Don’t worry, all this is anonymous and is only intended to give you the best recommendations possible.
Instant Sexiness that my friend Spectrum mentionned is great. Choice your pick between A and B version. Imagine A version being Julia Robert from the movie Pretty Woman in her street outfit / makeup and B version being Julia Roberts, from the same movie, after she turns high class thanks to an unlimited shopping spree. Both are pretty and sexy but they have a very different take on what sexiness should be (lol). “A” is definitely vamp-girl vibe / red lipstick and “B” more pretty nice sexy-classy girl that everybody likes. Some women will hate you for wearing “A” version around them. “B” can turn some of them into friends. So pick what you feel is best for you and him. It will help with the self-esteem for sure.
Instant Shine is a great one to get. It will boost your mood and make you shine, you won’t be perceived as a girl with low self-esteem. People will feel good and happy around you.
Instant Honesty that Spectrum mentionned is great if you want to create a relationship with the guy (I assume it’s not a fling thing). It will induce trust and bonding and let you connect on a deeper level.
These should definitely get you started.
Thank you, Conjurator. I can’t decide between Instant Sexiness A or B. I think my TG would prefer A’s sexy, but B would probably suit me more. Hmm. But looking forward to the gift cert and happy it will allow me to try out more options!
Hello Dulcette!
Welcome to the forum!
You definitely need one of the I.Sexiness . By your description I would suggest the A version, that one will really shooot your self esteem to the sky…
Since you think you are more the B type, I would suggest you try both. Sometimes you get surprised by the results. Before I got my first order I thought I was more the A type but now I cannot live without the IS-B.
I love the A too, but I use the B a lot more…
That being said, I strongly recommend you to get the Instant Female Wardrobe. You have a great selection of pheros to try out for a fair price. And it’s worth every cent! 
So, welcome to a wonderful new world… 
Thank you, brasileira! I appreciate your words of wisdom and the Instant Female Wardrobe rec.
Welcome Dulcette,
You are in the right place. I would look into the **Female Wardrobe **as you would get all the items everyone suggests. Now if you are in the states with the GC it would be $75 plus shipping. If you make an order over $100 you get free shipping in the states and may qualify for the weekly freebie also. So what I would do if I were you is get the kit and maybe add MX274 or MX300 and this way you would get all of this at a great price.
MX300 is like A314 but for women and would go good for work
MX274 This could help with binding with this guy you are talking about.
The female wardrobe will have Togo bottles of IS/A, IS/B, IO, IH, and IS.
The IO, IH, and IS are universal and will work on men and women.
I would start off with solo testing IS/B and see what you think. It is not so in your face and would try this around this guy and see how he reacts.
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Dulcette!
Great recommendations you have here.
I hope you found the GC I sent you helpful. Now go and ISexi him.
Happy Pheroing!
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Hi Dulcette. Congrats for getting your GC. Please consider starting a journal in the women’s section, this way we will be able to offer help and support along the way. Have a look at Lillian’s, Brasileira’s and Somechick’s journals (and others) they will probably inspire you.
Thank you all!
Hi!
I see you’ve already placed an order and used your GC . Hope you received it all fine.
Don’t forget to share your test results my friend. You can create your own journal here to keep notes of your dosages and usages, plus its different effects, including those you consider a “failure”. Journal helps a lot. It’s your own phero time machine.
For further questions, you can also create your own help-seeking thread here. Expert pheromone users usually browse this area.
Also, please drop a feedback here or via PM about how the shipping goes for you.
There are new perfume oils now in the store that may suit your needs too by the way. You might wanna check it out.
Thanks! Chat soon!
I would say try the Instant Female Wardrobe - To Go Version ! That way you have both isexinesses covered and ishine, ihonesty iopenness. all the good stuff to try first in one spot.