Hi Again Turnon.heat,
I saw your other post, so I thought I would copy it back in here.
Concerning your first point, I struggled with these thoughts myself when I first got started. My take on this has been that pheromones gives you a slight edge over sexuality, similar to how a lady might wear makeup, or you might dress up in a designer outfit. Mones aren’t going to cause anyone to seduce you against their will; their thoughts and feelings will be very much their own, and they won’t directly attribute this to the pheromones you are wearing.
If you freely let on that you are testing mones out, the question might be raised by your wife, “are you looking to attract someone else?” There could be some jealous feelings arise if you find you are getting hits form the ladies in front of your wife.
I’m lucky in that I let my SO know I was trying out the mones, and although she thought the idea might be a little silly, she doesn’t really mind what I put on as long as I smell nice and treat her like the prize she is to me. I started off doing some research on finding a new cologne for myself, then found the forum here, and figured I would test these out. I was upfront about this to her, and this worked out for me, but I can tell you I certainly had some anxiety about bringing this out in the open too her.
Now I’m finding she’ll ‘out’ me to close friends on occasion, when she thinks they might be interested in the science of pheromones, and I’ve purchased some female products for her to try. Maybe she’ll get to like them, and we’ll be a phero-team 
I’d suggest you be open and up-front about the mone use, but put some thought into how you can make this a light-hearted “silly idea you had,” rather than powerful and secret love potions that will have ladies lining up at your door, and I suspect you’ll do fine. Be sensitive to any insecuries she might have concerning your use of them, and be sure to prove to her that she has no reason to be insecure by showing your love for her frequently and with passion.
To your second point, (and I’m no expert here, perhaps Mobocaster will chime in here,) although these are similar to the natural pheromones that our bodies produce, the mones that AD sells here are synthetic. That being said, they have done the research into what chemical compounds the body produces, and tailored their mixes to use synthetic versions of these compounds.
See the post on the 13 “Golden” molecules here for a bit more info:
Your ages make TUTH an ideal product for you. I would think you could get away with wearing a spray of TUTH out on the town if you buffer it with a social IO, IH or IShine.
A couple of sprays of TUTH when you are sure things are moving to the bedroom will really do what the product claims.
One of the best things you can do is pick up the introductory pack and start trying them out. Also, look into searches on the products P96, P74, P75 and TAC also, I’ve found these to be useful.
pudleduk