Hello guys, and gals…
I am very new to pheromones and a little skeptical, which I am sure everyone is at first. I read the “Is this all a big scam??” post by newbie09 and while I can understand all his claims and concerns, I want to try to keep an open mind. I have done a lot of research on pheromones the past week and found that there is quite a bit of positive info to feast on so…I am going to give it a whirl.
I have been married for twelve years and have two great kids. My wife is amazing and HOT but for the last several years, she has no drive. We have been to sex therapy, marriage counseling, the doctor and testosterone injections are soon to follow I am sure, but I am desperate to wake my wife up! I read somewhere in this forum it is wise to try them all because one might work while another does not. I cannot afford to experiment that much and I really want to keep this under my wife’s radar. She is very skeptical of things like this and she WILL NOT buy into it. However, I am desperate…
Well, I need to tell you I have purchased a product that I saw on the internet. It will be here in a few days. I jump on it before I did any real research so I am praying I do not have to go through the hassle of using its 100% money back guarantee. The product is Dr. Amend’s Pheromone Advantage. They have a huge claim for a company that has been in existence for nine years and I cannot find any real reviews other than their own website. God I hope I did not make a mistake! I’m hoping you guys even though you seem to be behind the products indorsed through this forum , will tell me you have heard good news about the “Advantage”.
I am interested in buying a sample of the AMMO and looking into the Liquid Trust but I am so confused and do not want to blow money when I have a family to feed. Times are very tough for us right now… but that is one good damn reason why I need to get laid a little more often around here LOL.
I need SURE advice and really am placing a little trust in you to lead me quickly to my solutions. I am fully aware that Pheromones are not going to be the miracle solution but rather one more tool in my tool belt to use. I understand that there are many factors to great sex and relationships.
Now, I would like to eventually find a combination of pheromones that drive my wife’s libido crazy and help her open up to me venerably in the bedroom AND help me as well with my insecurities when it comes to sex as well. A little more confidence would be nice. PMJ worries me a little because we don’t get busy as much as we used too. I’m ready to explode when we do. Sorry for the graphics… Can you help!
Well welcome to the forum. I have read over your introduction several times. I’m not going to recommend a pheromone to u. Not yet anyway. I understand some of what you are going through. I’m married to a terrific woman and we have 3 children, 4 and under. My wife and I went through something like this earlier in the year. She went to see her doctor about it and he couldn’t help. At first I was angry. Then I was worried. Then I began my research. Before I ever found pheromones I came across an ebook called the nymphomaniac wife. It explained that the problem was me. That was hard to swallow. Then it began to list all of these needs that my wife needed to have met before she could begin to even think about sex. With women arousal begins in the brain and foreplay is an all day thing. I would suggest you look into that book.
Unfortunately I have never heard of the product you purchased. Although we recommend products from androtics here, a lot of us use other products and also recommend and discuss them here also. For the sake of this thread however we need a little more info for you to receive your gift card. How old are you, and where are you from?
If you want more personal advice about your situaion you may want to tell us how old your wife and children are and what the original attraction was. Can you tell us more about your personality?
Oh, and I am white and so is my wife. And one thing about my wife is she has a lot of common sense and is not a gulable person. Very smart and mature with tons of integrity!
Ok outside of the ebook I do have a few recommendations.
A314- This gives off an Alpha vibe. Some people say it’s like putting on James Bond. It has a lot of self affects, but the effects on others are amazing. You become important and the expert.
A1 (Androstadienone)- Androtics no longer sells A1 because there is a possible side effect of depression in men. However it is a male hormone that is found in sweat if memory serves me correctly. The important thing is that it makes women more receptive to you. It’s been called the romance pheromone. Women want to touch you and cuddle with you more. This may also be in the product that you just purchased.You can find it on http://love-scent.com or try a body wash by Dial called Magnetik. I have used the Dial version and it does work, however my wife hates the scent that has been added to the bodywash.
IH- Instant Honesty creates a sense of empathy and allows you to have better rapport and deeper conversations. I would recommend that you wear IH and A1 while talking to your wife for at least 30 mins before bedtime every night with no distractions. Make sure this is outside of the bedroom.
IS- If you are in tough times then IS may help take the edge off. It’s a feel good pheromone and makes everyone including yourself a little less tense. It also makes you look better and can improve the mood of everyone around.
I hope this helps. Please feel free to PM me directly if you have any other questions.
I messed up the whole answered/unanswered thing. While I appreciate JosieWilder’s comments I accidentally click answered and it is not been as of yet. My bad
Please read my original post again and here is the extra info, requested about me.
I’m 40 and my wife is 37. I have a eight year old and a six year old. We are living in Tennessee. I am white and so is my wife. And one thing about my wife is she has a lot of common sense and is not a gulable person. Very smart and mature with tons of integrity!
Hope this is what you need for the $25 gift but more importantly how to help me. Original post is key “Married with children…” Thanks!
Hope this is what you need for the $25 gift but more importantly how to help me. Original post is key “Married with children…” Thanks!
what are you looking to gain from mones? If you’re trying to spice things up I would recommend TUTH. It’s a very strong and sexual mone. Unless I have a specific mix I’m trying to achieve. If you get it remmeber not to use too much, as it won’t help any, it will probably just make you both pissed off :o
Which is exactly what we’re not going for here. Other ones that can make you closer are CTTM, which can increase comfort with eachother and meaningful conversation.
Let us know how things go!
I would also suggest reading David Deida’s Way Of The Superior Man and his view on Sexual Polarity when it comes to sexual attraction.
Also his Enlightened Sex Manual where he teaches you how to “fuck your woman to God,” is a great book too.
Without delving too much into your private life, I don’t know what kind of man you are, but if you have become too beta, and live too much in your feminine energy this can kill the sexual interest.
If this is something you think might be happening, then as Josie already suggested A314 would be a great start to getting that Alpha back on, and then layer it with Ammo so you’re a strong, confident, sexy man, and when you think you could close the deal with your wife, bam you put on some TUTH and go to town.
Thanks thegentleman,
I consider myself very much a man and so does my wife…But that said, I will strongly consider your advice. I always in joy reading.
So your saying combine TUTH with ammo? Is that a little much? Don’t want to come on to strong…And is A314 a base to all that as well? Sounds like I will be a cologne factory at bed time. I can see her looking at me now wondering what the hell I was thinking.
Well it’s about time that you responded!! lol I was waiting to see what you would say. I did leave out the TUTH and AMMO on purpose. I haven’t tested either of them yet. I have friends that have tested AMMO and have had ridiculous hits. I have one friend that has tested TUTH right at bedtime when he thought there was an opportunity. Then he cavemanned her and she blew his mind.
While I completely appreciate accidentally marking a response as answered I did have to merge your threads. There are just way to many new users for myself and Mickaelia to have to keep track of multiple threads. It can start a trend and that would be disastrous for us to get the gift certificates issued in a timely efficient manner.
There is also no way for us to mark a response as answered or remove one as answered. I suggest the best thing to do is simply make a quote of the best answer and add some rep points and a personal note and thanks. Otherwise ROCK on
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too .
I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too . Its cool!
Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one.
I am married with kids and just a little bit older than you.
Try reading the thread in my signature block for married guys - it will give a some ideas.
Also - because of our similarities in age, etc. many of the mixes I use might be pretty close to what you could successfully use. So please read through any of my other threads as well for ideas.
