Hey All, I’m a 56 year old very happily married man to my 50 yr old wife of 20+ years. Over the last 3-4 years her attention to me (both physical and non-physical) has declined and I’m seeking suggestions on how to energyze our married life and her willingness to accept/receive my sexual advances or better yet, show some initiative herself towards me. She is a very beautiful women which makes my dilemma all the more frustrating and challenging. So thank you to all for your thoughtful suggestions, I’m ready and willing to do whatever it takes!
Hi Alex! I’m new, too, and I have a similar goal to infuse a little more spiciness into my marriage. Reading through the forums, it looks pretty promising. 
If you haven’t seen it already, in the forums there is a Men’s Journals section where men who have been experimenting with different pheromones report their experiences with individual and blended products, and you might find others who have been in a similar situation and found a product that helped do the trick. I’ve picked up a lot of valuable information from reading the women’s journals, and it’s helped me make a decision for my first purchase on here. I intend to start reporting as soon as I get my first order in the mail.
I hope you find what you’re looking for! See you around!
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Alex90804!
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Nice recommendation there from your fellow newbie asmith.
Let me add some to it.
I’ll recommend two different combos for you: A314 oil + AMMO to rekindle the attraction, and AMMO + TUTH for some sexual attraction vibe.
There are putatives that may serve you well too, but since I am a moderator (not allowed to point newbies to the putatives and experimentals) and those are not covered by the return guarantee (don’t want you to think I am making you buy items you can’t return), I suggest you follow asmith’s directions and check out the Men’s Journals. There are a lot of gems in there.
Happy Pheroing!
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Hi Asmith,
Thank you very much for this suggestion, I’ll definitely check out both the Men’s and Women’s journals to help me make a quality decision on my first purchase. Feel free to share with me the outcome of your first purchases and I’ll do the same.
In your fifties, I would strongly suggest you consider the 2x or 5.0mcg versions of Ammo and TUTH - they are dosed more in line with your age and as a woman matures, she will likely take to a stronger rather than weaker signature.
A314 is indeed good for reminding women what the first liked about you and again, A314/TUTH is a good mature status/sexual combination.
Hey Mobocaster, prior to getting your comment I went along with Dee A’s suggestion of standard strength AMMO and TUTH. Upon reflection of our ages the stronger version may better produce the results I seek but the truth of that position will only come after giving the standard mix a run. My wife has a very keen sense of smell so maybe standard AMMO and TUTH will re-energize her. If not I’ll up my game and purchase the 2x versions of each. Thanks for your veteran suggestion as this neophyte will likely need the assist.
Hello Alex and Welcome!
Nice choice and what you will want to do is to build her up with the Ammo and don’t be to afraid to go heavier on this one being in your late 50’s.
It is best to test both solo to find your very best dose for both first.
Now a tip I can give you and I think if you try it will work wonders with what you have is being that you got both in the regular version is this,
Say your sweet spot with Ammo is 3 sprays. What you can do is cut it back to 2 sprays and replace that third spray with 1 spray of TUTH. What this will do is give you a stronger attraction/sexual signature and the rest of the stuff in Ammo will make the TUTH much more useable for day use to.
This is just an example on dose to give you an idea. I would build her up with the Ammo and then when you are ready start cutting back and then bring in the TUTH.
I hope this helps with what you have.
When you are ready to make another order I would look into A314 and IShine.
I hope this helps you out and if you have any questions at all just post and we will help you out. I hope to read your experience in the future and I encourage you to start a journal we can follow and we will continue to help you out and to make sure you succeed.
My AMMO and TUTH has arrived and I have a quick question. Following your suggested use of AMMO first to build her up and then introduce TUTH my question is this. When do I start applying AMMO, during a normal work day where we have a little contact in the morning and then I leave for work and have no contact until the end of the day or do I reserve the application to the weekends and or periods of time where we’ll be together for extended periods of time? Sorry for the lame question I just want to make sure I do this the right way. Thanks a bunch for your help!
Yes - Ammo is more the all-round sociable/smart/sexy man product that is still well balanced, so can be used in a wide range of situations, whilst TUTH is more determinedly sexual and IME is best kept for the times she’s more relaxed and sex is in the frame - or when she’s enjoying herself and letting her inhibitions slip.
So it is quite viable to add-in some TUTH on top of your Ammo as your mood changes. This increases the sexual proportion of the mix (plus discrete steering) but still retains some moderation from the Nol and Rone in Ammo.
You might be surprised how much TUTH you can use around her - once a woman hits her late 40s/50s, the doses that become tasty to her can go surprisingly high - esp with something like TAC alongside it as steering, which really helps with “letting-go!” Doses of 20mcg and over do seem to produce the best results. P83 is another you might want to investigate in time as it helps with physical disinhibition or P96 if re-conneting/bonding is an issue but these are more experimental molecules, not standalone products.
Scent is an issue with Ammo - it can get quite strong if you use a number of sprays, so the Heavy version offers better scent control as well as economy. TUTH is less of an issue as it is in a much lighter Neroli
The more exposure the better. They key to it is to keep exposing here to the Ammo over the course of some time and there is not set limit. It may take a little bit at least a few exposures to start seeing the results you are looking for. The reason for this is she is use to your normal signature and with the Ammo there will be a new you she will have to adjust to. I would just start testing and find your best dose and go from here. Just don’t get discouraged and may take 4 or 5 times of hitting her with the Ammo before you start getting to where you want things to be.
I would test Ammo for a while around her solo and Ammo is very balanced and with your age you should have no problems with any OD.
Then once you have things dialed in I would try to introduce the TUTH. You can Add TUTH to the Ammo and would start off this way. I would add the TUTH later on like Mobocaster suggested.
Then down the road I would experiment with using TUTH with the Ammo once you kind of have a grip on both. Something like 1 spray of the TUTH to 2 sprays Ammo, something like this should be just fine even out in public. Usually the issue with TUTH is younger guys try and use it out in public and use to much and plus women in that are younger are also very sensitive to it as well and they OD getting negative responses. But this should not be a concern at all for you.
I would start here and then down the road I agree about looking into the molecules that Mobocaster suggested as well to really make TUTH come alive.
Yes - At my age I find I can use overt sexuals like TUTH much more effecively in general situations around more mature women. Younger ones back-off sometimes but beyond the odd bit of light flirting they are not really my area of interest.