My name is Simon, I’m at 21-year-old guy from Copenhagen, the capital city of Denmark. I’m headed for uni next year, majoring in Danish, and later in Rhetorics, but for now I work in an art museum in the Café.
People and their interaction with oneanother has always been a major point of interest for me. Ever since 7th grade, where I moved to a new school, thoughts have been flowing through the back of my head, about the importance of every little factor, which can make or break an interaction between two or more people. So far I’ve come to the conclusion, that it’s all about the presentation of oneself. For this reason, I’m wanting to study rhetorics; Rhetorics are like the pheromones of language, whoever one might be talking to may never notice its presence, yet it can be ever so crucial for the outcome of an interaction.
I stumbled across PheroTalk while reading up on different facts about pheromones, and it caught my interest. I thought the site seems very professionally driven, with good support and a friendly community. I’m mostly looking to compare the effect of pheromones to that of rhetorics, and try out different means of rhetorics in comparison to different pheromones. Also, I’ve always been majorly interested in anything within the human body, that regulates mood and feelings, and since pheromones has got to be some of the more important ones to be mentioned in this context, I think I couldn’t have come to a better site than this one.
Your interest sounds rather different to what brought most of us here first. Can you expand on Rhetorics a bit and any particular areas/aspects of behaviour that intrigue you.
Oh and a bit more about your own personality, demeanour and presentation would be a great help to us too. That can affect your phero choice and help us frame advice/opinions as well.
Hello Simon. Looks like you have some great experiences ahead of you. Sounds like you already have a good understanding of human interaction. You will definitely find more information on that topic here. Pheromones will be a great addition to your current observations. However you need to know that pheromones primarily communicate messages from the wearer. So you will have to participate in the interactions.
You may be interested in starting with what we call socials. Products like IH and IO help facilitate better communication. IO helps initiate communication. It is primarily alpha andronstenol and helps people become more chatty. IH is primarily beta androstenol and helps people be more empathetic creating deeper conversation.
Wow, that’s a lot of feedback in no time. These boards really live up to their reputation I see most people recommending socials for my purpose, and this was also my initial thought.
I think I’m going to start out ordering IH and IO, especially IO will be a good choice for me, since the hardest part of a conversation for me is initiating and establishing contact.
I’m headed out for work now, but I’ll definately make a longer post some time this evening, where I tell a little more about myself, and what I intend to do of fieldwork with the mones
Back from work now, so I’m going to tell you guys a little more about myself and my intentions.
First I’d like to elaborate my earlier statement, about every little factor making impact on interaction between individuals:
When I moved to my second school in the 7th grade, there was a sudden change of environment. The standards of teachers and students alike made a turbulent drop. This had two important consequences for me. One: I had to find my place in surroundings completely unknown. Two: I was the knew guy, who nobody really knew, and had a hard time being myself. I became increasingly introvert, and started caring way too much about others’ thoughts on me. The obvious conclusion is that I lost self esteem, and found it increasingly hard to approach people. I’m shy by nature, until I get to know people, but it is as if I smash my head into the barrier of approach anxiety time after time.
As earlier mentioned, I take a huge interest in rhetorics, but what good is speaking well, if you never make it to the point, where you get to have a conversation? Not much I’m telling you all. Based on this a conclusion is starting to take form in my head: I might need the IO to open myself, rather than the people I want to talk to. Could this be beneficial? If anyone has experience about this, please do tell, and if not, I’ll test it out myself.
I’m ordering IH and IO on monday, when the paycheck is in, and will probably make a more broken down and point-wise thread about my experiences, once I’ve given it a few tries, to be continued
From what you’ve described of your personality and needs, I think you’ve make a perfect choice to start with IH and IO. You’re definitely going to have fun!
For what you want I would lean a bit more toward IH than to IO. IO can create a bit too silly of a mood and conversations can become mind numbingly inane. It’s a great product for making idle chatter in a social scene like a bar or club but almost counter productive if you want a serious meaningful conversation where IH would be much more effective.
Likewise a spray of IG or a drop of A314 could garner you enough respect that people will be more inclined to shut the hell up and listen to what you have to say. (a factor that’s been ignored) you don’t want everyone to talk nonstop and not let you get a word in edgewise.
Got my order today, and I must say I’m excited. The service was great, quick and painless delivery, and got a free 5ml TUTH as a gift. I’m going to work out a report and will post some results once they show.
