Hi I’m Tim. I am a 29 year old male. from Los Angeles, CA.
Me and me girlfriend broke up in Aug. but remained friends. In fact I’m her only good friend. We were special adult friends until she meet her current boyfriend. then I lost it. emotionally. I realised what really wanted, HER.
I love her very much and want to have her in my life everyday till I am no more. I have been the very best friend anyone can have and then some. that is the problem. I don’t want to be friends, I want to be her best friend and every thing else. So I have been reading up on trying to get your ex back.
One of the articles mentioned something about pheromones, which got me thinking. Chemical warfare. All is fair in love and war, right!
So I looked around and stumbled across this site. Which I read a couple posts. and promptly when to the store and bought the “turn up the heat” spray. Cause we are a comfortable as 2 people can be together, with out having sex. I already promised her I would not go after her while she was in this relationship. that doesn’t mean I cant use every trick I can get my hands on, to get her to go after me.
I also want to try to find someone new to distract me for a bit. that I can practice on to be a better person in a relationship.
ANYONE HAVE ANY OTHER SUGGESTIONS OF WHAT TO USE or DO?
IME pheros can be useful here, although you will also need to significantly change aspects of your behaviour and attitude towards your friend as well. Even then, it can still be a big gamble.
Personally, I found that starting with the more social/charasmatic pheros, then adding the more sexual ones did a lot to help move several close friends into something more.
The best combination for me was the now defunct MX297, then TUTH/Androstenone. However, you can still do a lot with the likes of Instant Openness, Instant Shine and depending on the woman, Instant Gentleman or A314. Then adding say Ammo or TUTH as your interactions intensify. Personally I would suggest Ammo as a better starter sexual phero in your situation but a lot of that depends on the individual responses of your woman. Only you can judge that.
Then there are a number of putatives like P83, P74 and P96 that can help here too - However, it would maybe be best to leave them till you have done a lot more reading/learning here first. There are plenty of far more informed/experienced posters than I here and I’ve no doubt they will be along to offer advice soon. Until then, the more insight into your personality/appearance, styles of interaction etc, the better we may be able to advise.
I dont think tuth is the best idea to start actually. First you m ust know that these are not magic love potions or anything like that. If she’s found someone she may very well have moved on. I was actually in this situation and I actually got the girl back, then realized why I had broke up with her in the first place and ended it quickly again. We’re now friends again but I wish we hadn’t hooked back up at all.
But yeah these aren’t guaranteed to make her love you again or anything. Honestly I wait until I’m about to get lucky before I spray any TUTH as it’s a very strong sexual pheromone and can be not great if used in the wrong places. I would recommend socials like IO/IH and IS. These can get people comfortable and promote trust and chattiness. for attraction I would go with ammo before tuth to start off. it’s sexual but buffered with some social mones that make it more acceptable to wear almost anywhere.
Hey there, Tim! Glad you can come on it and talk!!!
Well, you have some things to work on I see with your ex. I’d be inclined to agree with mobo and empath on this… TUTH is a VERY sexual mone, which may bring to mind YOU WANT SEX NOW vibe, and subconsciously she may be put off by it, to the point of backfiring on you. Now, when you are pretty SURE your getting into that arena, TUTH will put it over the edge.
Though, since your looking to use this for a particular target, you really don’t know how she will react to it. Difficult to gauge. AMMO + IS will get you a sexually confident male (AMMO) here who is relaxed and happy (IS talkin’) vibe that will give this effect on yourself and others around you. You can try the mones individually and observe her reactions but then layer a couple together.
I’d suggest you start out with IS, see how it affects you and others, not only her, so that you can easily gauge the AMMO, when you start using it.
So I got my order of IS, IO, IH, and TUTH. I tried out IS and IO at one of my job sites today. I am xray tech that works for a registry(nice way of saying temp work for health pros). It might of been my imagination, but I swear the patients were more receptive to my instructions and were over all more friendly. This is at a pain management clinic so they are usually pretty grumpy.
Then Later after work I went to see my friend and EX. I put on one spray of TUTH on my chest 4 hours before I saw her(to minimize the effect, I plan to up it as we hang out more) and two sprays of IS and IH 20 mins before. We had wonderful time. being both physically and emotional closer. Laughed a whole lot(we are so silly together) and had a couple of great talks. Especially about why she is pissed about her current boy and what is is going to do about it. IE That she is going to stop making him first in her life, and doing what she wants like hang out with me more. Well cause we share so much in common such as xray and so much more( I’m actually good to shop with, I helped her pick out a new nail polish today).
Great to hear Gammax! Being easy to shop with and ACTUALLY HELPING… that’s something rare in guys…
I’d suggest you open up a journal to chronicle your uses of the mones. It’s helped me out in getting back to what has worked and what hasn’t… you can go to the men’s journal forum and create a new thread!
Smart of you to set the TUTH ‘sit’ for a few hours before meeting up with her…
