Hi everyone. thanks for the warm welcome, am just new here and doing a bit of a study from australia, (am 25 male from gold coast in australia) recently (in august 15th 2009) i lost my girl friend. (well she dumped me, and please dont ask me for the reason, it’s a long story. lol) until about 3 weeks from that day onwards, i couldn’t really believe it, it was like a nightmare for me, after those 3 weeks, we’ve established the fact that we’re good friends, somehow long story short, we’ve started dating other people, and now she’s with someone else, i’ve started dating a dozen other girls, and am not happy with them as they’re not like my ex girlfriend. I dont mean to brag about myself, but being an italian guy, i dont have many problems to talk to girls, as am flirty in nature and pretty friendly and smile a lot with ANYONE. 
(see i even smile with you guys. lol) but my target right now is to win my ex girlfriend back with a bit of a help of you guys, i’ve read a lot of posts on this forum, and i’ve learnt quite a lot, but do you guys believe that there’s any sorta phero product here that i could win my ex back? anyhow am happy to read more if you can post the link for the proper post, u dont have to type it again, just the link for the post would be GREEEATLY appreciated. thanks a lot guys, i like this forum as it’s fun and imformational. i’ve read a lot of posts as a guest before i signed in, and because it’s friendly, i though i’ll sign in aswell, so i could learn more. thanks in advance for all the info you guys and girls are giving me. every little bit is greatly appreciated.
Hello there GoofyJester and welcome to the forum!
Well personally, my advice would be to keep moving on as you’ve been doing and not worry about your ex, but I’ll just skip that part.
First off, A314. This stuff is one of my favorite products here and it’s very good at making you seem “alpha”. In the past, I’ve worn this around attractive girls, and had them seeing me as “potential mate”. One of the things it does is up your value so it will make girls think “this guy is one of a kind” so that could help get your ex to see you in a different light.
I’d also recommend some Instant Honesty because when combined with A314 it produces a very nice bonding effect, and makes people feel as if they’ve know you for a long time. It’s great if there’s someone you want to get to know better or get closer to. Very nice.
Try these out and also check out my journal in the men’s section because the first few pages have some examples of A314 + Instant Honesty.
Good Luck!
Welcome to the forum.
You’ve taken on quite a challenge. Pheromones have the strongest effect on people we don’t know, and who are forming first impressions. I wouldn’t think of them as anything more than a nice suit of clothes or a nice car in your quest to win your old girlfriend back. She already has a well-developed mental model of who you are.
Hi GoofyJester, there’s quite a few Aussies here on the boards, I’m one of them. So, welcome! I think K-Train is right, keep moving on and dating other women. It may help to see your ex see you in a different light, and you may find that you change your mind about her yourself. Getting one’s ex back is a difficult thing, especially if she’s angry with you (which she may be since she dumped you). Can’t really give you much advice here… good luck with it.
A314 could work for you, it can cause a bit of intimidation but if you are smiling and friendly anyway it could work for you. I’d also try Instant Gentleman, it’s cheaper than 314 and available in 5ml size to try out, I’d try that first. Makes you seem cool and mature, like James Bond. Instant Honesty might get her opening up to you again and thrashing out the issues that caused the breakup.
Hi GoofyJester,
Is there a sort of phero product that could win you ex back?
It’s possible, but… I believe when a person is hurt, and with all the emotions this entails, a person still control their decison making process. Something to help, social products are the first step. Communication is the first step.
respectfully,
MVKBUGATTI
thanks a lot for the reply guys, i really appreciate it. u’re absolutely right mvkbugatti, but see the thing is, it happened in august 15th, so it’s roughly about 5 months ago. so i feel like it’s enough time to heal the wounds. that’s why i tot i should try this phero’s to see if it’ll work. i kinda did get over her when i started dating other girls. (with all respect to all the ladies) all of them weren’t like my ex. i guess she’s one of a kind i cant compare with.
Welcome GJ… Sorry to hear about your breakup. It is hard to give good advice with “please don’t ask for the reason”. Since the reason could be anything, what could we advise. For example, if the reason was “she thinks I drink too much” then the answer would be “drink less”.
But regardless. Think about the reasons SHE is the “one” you desire. Is it her wit? Is it the way you communicate? Was it the sex? Is it just that you don’t like change?
Then, think about the ways you failed as a couple. WHY you have broken up in the first place. Ask yourself what you can do to fix the issue(s). What can you do to become a better fit for her. Don’t focus on what SHE needs to do, make yourself better for her.
I would refrain from dating other women if your feelings are sincere. Right now anyone you date will fall into the “rebound” category and it is really not fair to them. Your heart is elsewhere… If you do not get back together of course you will want to date. But WAIT to date until your heart is free, don’t start dating and expect the new girl to steal your heart - you must give it freely. And, while still “internally committed” to another this cannot happen.
BE VERY CAREFUL not to blur the lines of friendship before re-establishing your relationship. It can be easy to take your friendship back to a more intimate level without any real communication. This is dangerous. Make sure while you are friends, you are FRIENDS. You can be a great friend, but do not cross any lines. It will almost always end in a bad, bad way.
So, my advice is to enjoy your friendship with her. It is FRIENDSHIP that is the foundation of any solid relationship so now is your chance to further build that foundation. Be a friend (without expectations) like no other! Be there for her unconditionally. Put your needs (for her) aside and be the best friend you can be. In the end, your friendship can rebuild your relationship. Or, through your friendship you will be able to free your heart and find someone else.
Pheromones are not the answer here.
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once again thanks for the replies everyone. the reason for the break up was a prank i played on her. i think u’re right nobrain, i guess i gotta let it go and find someone else. as soon as i feel free from the thoughts i have for my ex. i guess i gotta move on. just like kezza and ktrain told. i’ll keep u guy posted anyways. anyhow. let’s play with some pheros and see if i can find someone better than my ex ey? lol. i’ll keep u guys posted. thanks again for the info.