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**Hey everybody my names Blake I’m 20 and from georgia. The first reason I came here was because I heard about pheremones and did a great deal of searching on the internet for them. What happened? I lead myself to this forum and found out information about a whole bunch of products that were actually talked about freely and didn’t have biased reviews from the company that made them. I believe that a lot of the pheremones on the market that have reviews are not legit. **This forum seems to actually have a lot of good information about pheremones as well as other good advice.

Another main reason I came here was basically searching for a way to get my ex girlfriend back we were together for about 2 and half years and the bond we had really seemed to be it for me. She is now with another guy but I know she still misses me and thinks about me. I have already bought one ebook on her to get her back from another guy but it didn’t work out in my case since we actually work together and it was talking about NC for a month. I have done a lot of searching online about how to get her back even if she is happy with this other guy I don’t want to give up. So any advice about this would be very much appreciated. I already heard that IS would be good to make her happier to talk to me but thats about all that I have found out.

Not only am I trying to focus on that but I also am trying to work on being a more social person to since Im pretty much to myself and it seems hard for me to put myself out there even to find some cool people to hang out with normally. Any help on my situation would be be appreciated. I want to be more of an alpha male type because truthfully right now Im not to much of a talkative person unless its someone that I’m cool with and have a good deal of social anxiety. I know a lot of people might tell me to move on and get another girl but I really want to win this one back because she is the one I would be happy to settled down with even though I’m in a tough situation. We basically have to talk because I’m a busser/dishwasher and shes a host. What type of attitude and mindset should I have with her when we talk?

Thanks for all the help looking to become a different person from joining this forum and learning some new tactics to attract her back from this guy. Im not a bad looking guy actually I know some girls like me at work I just need work on other apsects of how I act and how these pheremones can help me be a more attractive guy to girls.

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Hiya Blake, welcome to the mone forum. Pherotalk has some excellent posters that will post it how it is on mones and other things in life.

For many sites, yes, they have much hype and not much in substance. Though, there are some good mones from other producers, you have to be mindful when you look at some of these sites.

For your personal reasons to use mones, I’d suggest you look at IG, AMMO, IShine and IO. MOSTLY for the self effects that can contribute to your confidence levels rising. I think that you have to do some things for yourself so that you can up your value in her and others eyes. You have to be Very comfortable with yourself and IG and AMMO, I can see contributing to that state of being. Social anxieties are hurtles that can be overcome, you need to identify why they come about. When you have a few issues listed out, focus on one and get your mones to support you.
Maybe looking at being friendly with others around you, going out with them and having a mindset of not expecting from them, just what you can offer up to make their life better.

I’m just rambling now and I do wish you well in your self improvements! :smiley:

Thanks for starting up an intro here. :slight_smile:

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Hi Blake - Welcome to Pherotalk. :slight_smile:

Well, yes there are various strategies for getting a GF back and yes, very many of them do depend on getting right out of her life and letting her find her way back to you, if she wants. There are a few good reasons behind this.

Not least because it gives you space to heal, look over yourself, your life and any personal issues that contributed to a breakup - More or less improve yourself in every way. And in the meantime, you may actually get a new perspective and to like your new position - after all, you now have many more options and this is where pheros can help.

Broadly, pheros fall into three main categories:

1 Sexual:

Ammo - Balanced sexy/social/attractive and for some, confidence boosting mix of the three main pheros, none, nol and rone.

TUTH - Very overtly sexual and really intended for those in an established sexual relationship. However it can be useful in highly sexually charged situations like parties and clubs with moderation from social pheros. Wear TUTH in the wrong environment and quite negative effects can happen. Use with care.

2 Socials:

Instant Shine - Happy/social/feelgood and confidence-boosting in all the good ways. About the most all-round phero there is and can be worn in most situations. Works very well alongside Ammo.

IO - Promotes flowing conversation and helps break the ice.

IH - Helps deepen conversation and promote bonding/trust. Useful when getting to know someone or to rekindle an old bond. :wink:

3 Status:

IG - A light smooth/suave status formula that makes a good impression, esp in people around your age.

A314 - A blinder for work. Carries strong status/respect/trust/authority signals. Everything you need to get-on. Also useful in conveying strong LTR qualities but in socialising/dating it can appear too serious, standoffish or even dad-like, especially around younger women - don’t generally wear around party girls, use IG instead. However as they age, the A314 signal becomes much more attractive. Needs high congruence and time to get the full benefits out of it.

And in the meantime, it is probably better you move-on and get out there to have some fun and get to know other girls - for your own sake. You will become a more social and attractive person because of it and if you work with your ex, she will probably soon get to hear about it - which can also help. :slight_smile:

Lastly, remember that as a 20yr old, you will probably have a reasonable natural none production and that girls around your age tend to be more responsive to lower/less overt doses of none rather than higher. So don’t underestimate the socials for their ability to trigger attraction - In fact they often work best with younger women. This changes as they age and of course, you can find exceptions at any age, so it is worth finding your sweet spot with several products so you can respond as the situation demands.

Have a read of this thread - All the basics on choosing and using pheros are covered:

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Hello Blake and welcome to the forum.

The first thing I will tell you is that pheromones are not magic. And they will not work magic in an uphill battle to win back a girlfriend, even if you have been together for 2 years. People change a lot at your age and the two of you might have just changed enough so that it does not work for her anymore.

That being said you could give a couple things a try:

You could use the Ammo or the IG already mentioned as a base product. The ammo would give you more of a sexy vibe. The IG would give you more of a cool, calm smooth lapha kinda vibe. Maybe either one of those could help her see you in a new light.

The IShine might help also - it would help her to feel happy to be around you. and I would go with the IH. It helps create feelings of connection and that is what you are also looking to rekindle.

The big thing to remember is that you do not want to come across as needy or pushy. Friendly, happy to see her but not as in desparate, and content in who you are are.

If she sees a new strong sexy you, it might work. Again, odds are against it. But if it does not work for her, there are certainly other girls looking for that kind of guy. and that guy can be YOU.

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Thanks for the help everybody this situation still isn’t looking that great but Im still going to work on it. Im slowly realizing that it might honestly not work out and might have to actually move on and see other girls. The fact is that it kind of sucks being around her all the time and she is still nice to me and wants to be close friends she even calls me still.Its just really confusing to say the least and Its hard to know which way to go I wish I could just let it go easier but for me it’s not that simple cause I miss her way to much about her and how much fun we had together.

As for all the advice that you guys have given me it is much more than I expected and I appreciate it. Knowing which pheremones work out for certain situations is good to know information.

Last night I made a order for some pheremones as I’m still going to keep giving this a shot even though I know the odds are against me. I got Instant Shine and also the Ammo. Because of my budget I couldn’t get The IH and that against the Ammo was what I was deciding for along with the Istant Shine. To win her back I know I need to become a stronger person mentally and socially and even if that doesn’'t work out I still know I got these pheremones to help me out with other girls if I wind up moving on.

If there is also any more advice that anyone else would like to give about my situation and how to become a better stronger person in her eyes Im open ears for it.

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Welcome to pherotalk Aboveit20!

I think the recommendations that the guys gave are excellent.

Now, sometimes us caring for someone means we are willing to watch them be happy even if it’s not with us.

You might want to consider that if she is happy with someone else why be selfish and try to get her back and just complicate things and her life.

Your gc was issued!