Hi Chella & nice to have you as a member in Pherotalk 
So i see that you are looking at Pheros here to help in your relationship. Ok here is a detailed info about the ladies pheros here click on this link> Womens Pheromone Guide
Anyway you will get some of the experienced Phero Ladies to say hi to you here if they happened to see your post & they can help on your situation there. I hope you will enjoy yourself in this forum