new user wanting to learn more
Hello jwhit! Welcome to the forum!!
Now, your intro is a bit too short lol, can you tell us more about yourself please…
Most importantly are you a guy or gal? lol, it may help many members to suggest you products that you might enjoy!
What types or reactions are you looking for? Do you want something to make you feel more confident? Sexy? For business? Socials?
There is so much to talk about 
Tell us more about yourself.
This is a really friendly forum, don’t be scared sweetie, open up now 
(no pun intended)
male looking to find somthing to make wife who is in mentpause more attrachted to me
Hello Jwhit,
You want your wife to be more attracted to you?
Tell us a little more so we can help you out a bit
Are you looking for any self-effects yourself? Maybe respect?
Do you feel you and your wife have trouble communicating?
What would you say if the biggest factor of your relationship right now?
Tiffany
Hi Jwhit…let’s talk
About you…
Areyou shy or outgoing? Comfortable around new people? Nervous is a group?
If you can tell us a little more about yourself it will help us make good recommendaitons. Also, it will qualify you for that gift cert i’m sure you want.
Ah ok,
I’m probably don’t have the best answer since I don’t know what it’s like when a woman goes through menopause… sorry about that, but I’m sure that the married folks here know better than me. Anyhow, I’ll try to give it a shot
One of the sexiest products for the guys is “Turn up the heat” this babe arouses women like crazy. Best used when your intimate with your wife.
I could suggest you products that may make your wife in a good mood as well.
Instant shine will make her feel more merrier, in a good mood. Personally, I’ve wear this around the grumpiest people and I’ve never had a bad day. People joke around, have a funny conversation, there’s laughter…etc. It’s really a nice feeling.
Instant honesty will make your conversations with your wife more intimate. She might want to get closer to you, chat more with you.
I hope it helped for now, but do hold on there are other members who might suggest more than me
Welcome to the forum Jwhit,
Actually we want more info from you because we want to address great products for you that suit your target usage and your personality.
The forum moderator want to know alot from you, and they are so kind to offer new member a $25 gift certificate. Read the first post linked in my signature block below to find out more about how you could qualify for the GC.
what does mentpause mean anyway? (sorry I am not a native English speaker)
Turn up the Heat would be great for attracting and spicing up sexual relationship with your wife.
Waiting for your further info.
Welcome to Pherotalk Jwhit!
You are being very tight lipped so let me see if I can break the ice. Mick sprays on some instant openness
Now, we will need much more information than that if we are going to assist you. I will be there waiting for that information.
I not only want to issue you a gift certificate but the feedback we give is only as good as the info you give us to start with. So, come on share with us who you are and your situation.
since my wife had cancer they had to do complete historerectormy which has left her no real desire for sex.doctors have here on hormones but this still does not help.we are typical middle age couple been marrige 24 years and alls was great untill the cancer. so i was just looking for somthing that might help relight the fire
thanks
Thanks for the information. I am glad to hear that you have a great marriage, that is a good foundation for phero experimentation.
It is very easy to say buy some Turn up the Heat and light her up… but I’m not sure that’s all there is to it. Granted, that would be a physical turn-on for her, and would make her more aroused. But with women there is often something else going on. Now there is every chance that her lack of excitement is a hormone deficiency issue, in which case you can use supplements to help her get back on track or else see your doctor.
The female libido is a very fragile thing. So often it is derailed by things that have nothing to do with sex. We can be stymied by anything that is personally off-putting, such as lack of hygeine, irritation at someone’s behavioral quirks, worry about a family situation, frustration over something completely unrelated…the list goes on and on.
With that in mind, I would recommend that you first try Instant Honesty. It really helps with that type of communication that every couple so desperately needs… the deep, intimate conversations in which people really display their true selves, talk about what they really think and feel. The kind of talks that relationships are built on. Instant Honesty might help her talk through this interruption in her sexuality.
A woman will rarely, if ever, be completely uninhibited in her sexuality unless she feels comletely safe and understood. Have you discussed her hysterectomy and the changes she’s going through physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually? This could help a lot.
Thank you for giving us the additional information. Indeed, your case is a delicate and complicated on.
Moonwhisper gave you some write on advice. Good luck with your wife and keep us updated.
Your GC is on it’s way!