I’m a 32 male from London and well why I’m here is 'cause in short my confidence and good mood is fleeting and I stumbled upon this site when I typed in ‘confidence drug’ and Instant Shine came up.
I have been aware of pheromes kinda subconsciously but not up until this point ever thought much beyond that about them.
At the moment as I say my confidence is up and down and I do get bouts of depression mainly due to my woes concerning women. I feel as long I can get something will give me a little buzz / feeling good vibe and have an effect on the ladies then that seems worth a shot.
I think my fear would be taking Instant Confidence too much and whether it has any detrimental effects post i.e depression etc but I’d probably use it in small doses for starters.
Would be nice to know a bit more about what can be the detrimental side of the various pheromes other than what the hell lets give it a go!!
Can someone suggest what would be a good combo of pheroms to take?
Chiefly I like to approach women on the street with a wing or in bars/pubs. I’m generally pretty good energy when I’m in the moment but can start to loose it quite quickly once I’ve opened a girl and loose my self belief.
Its not like I have a fear of approaching girls 'cause I don’t but I definitely can feel miserable at times and struggle to actually smile and sometimes in a sexy way which obviously can be a real problem!! By the way this is a recent phenomonon (struggling to smile) excuse the pun lol.
Also my conversations can dry up a bit too.
Part of me doesn’t like the idea of using these products because I don’t want an easy situation because it looses its value so yeah looking for some thoughts on the matter. Afterall you only value something that you got yourself by your own wits/charm etc. That’s why sleeping with a hooker would never ever appeal to me.
Anyways I’m a little confused with this stuff and really kinda wondering how I should approach it all and whether in the long run its good for me or whether I should just plough on a deal with my problems myself etc.
I’ve been on the site for a bit of time now and I think I can answer a few of your questions. First off, yes I do believe the greatest solution to your own ‘perceived’ social problems is to fight them yourself. Yes some pheromones will give you good self effects such as more self confidence, more focus on what to say, or just happier in general. But these things can come from within too. I’ve found with me its just my happiness from within that nobody can say or do to me to take that away. If what I have to say isn’t interesting or doesn’t bring a smile to the face of who I’m taking to, they were never really worth talking to in the first place. So on that note, its really not worth it in life to hold yourself back in what you want to say or do. By simply having a positive outlook from excepting how things are in life can really improve the way you interact with others.
Now pheromones can also be fun too. In some cases they also helped me realize in life how simple social dynamics really are. If you would like to be more chatty with others you may want to try come talk to me 2 and or instant openness. I find some people are too talkative with IO. For your own self confidence and social worth to others I would definitely try A314 or its cheaper more social version IG. In my first purchase I got A314 and it was worth it completely. For a more social and sexy vibe in bars and approaching women you may want to try ammo. there is also ammo world edition which is supposed to have a more of a complex smell.
And finally, if you feel you need abit more of a smile you may want to try instant shine. This in its self encourages everyone to be in a more cheery mood which can be very helpfull.
I suggest you try A314 and Shine for confident.
A314 can help to make people respect and trust you more. It helps to build some confident. Shine will also help to make you feel good and boost confident.
For conversation, try IO and IH. IO gives you an edge to approsch people. They will open up and want to talk to you.
IH will make the conversation last longer. They will talk in more details and deeper with you.
FOr attraction, try AMMO. It can help to get the girls attracted to you.
For attraction, definitely get some Ammo. Ammo will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost, and can be worn anywhere.
To help with initial shyness and approach anxiety, go with Instant Openness. Instant Openness will relax you and those nearby, everyone will be friendlier and conversation will flow more easily.
If you have trouble holding a conversation, and feel as though you “lose it” sometimes, as you mentioned, use Instant Honesty. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to conversations, others will feel more comfortable around you and will be more likely to trust you and open up to you.
To help with the “depression” aspect, Instant Shine is great! Instant Shine is an uplifting, positive phero mix that will boost your mood as well as the moods of those around you.
The others mentioned A314, which is a serious confidence/trust/respect product primarily intended for work environments. it can be used socially, but its a bit tricky, you might want to wait on that one until you’ve had a little more experience with pheros.
I hope this helps, and just ask if you have any questions!
Banoonoo you have all the knowledge on what pheromones you should try now based on some very knowledgeable people posted above me. I think you should definitely look into the instant line to start out and definitely the socials like IO and IH.
Aside from those in my personal opinion based on my own reactions i find i too have trouble smiling and being really outgoing if i just dont really feel like it but yet still want to look attractive and be inviting to the opposite sex. I may be having a great time but my face may not show it and i come off differently and possibly like you just want to be left alone.
Instant shine has time and time again consistently given me confidence, outgoingness, and wit with smiles and grins that i cant seem to wipe off at times. It is definitely a mood uplifter and affects those around you as well in the same way. Now you also have to work on yourself in the process because thats the most important part but these mones will help you along the way and may make it easier for you to feel more upbeat and ready to enjoy life !
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Thanks guys but when my mood goes it really goes - it literally sinks like a stone and I can literally struggle to smile or get enjoyment from anything for weeks and beyond!!
I’m going to give this ‘Instant Shine’ a shot but try not to over do it as to be fair its a bit of an unknown as to what the long term effects of these pherome sprays are.
I shall endeavour however it is tough when you just loose all hope.
Naturally tho I’ll certainly come visit you guys personally if your products help me!!
