Welcome to Pherotalk Justlookinforfun!
I only have one and I went through the same thing. I got out of it and had a couple of flings but after it not working out and getting settled again I feel like am getting back into that mommy mode where you feel like a mommy and not a woman.
I know you know exactly what am talking about. 
Instant sexiness/a matches your personality and is going to make you feel confident and sexy. Since you are already intimidating I recommend you use instant shine with the is/a to tone it down.
Instant shine is a great product that makes you feel relaxed and gives off that youthful vibe that draws others to you. It is also a great product that we all use with all our products as a buffer.
Instant sexiness/b is for someone with more of a soft, girly type personality and wearing this will definitely attract the alpha male.
Some women can only wear the instant sexiness that goes with their personality as others like myself wear both depending on what vibe we want to give.
When you make your purchase and start testing remember to share your experiences with us in the women’s section. We can also give you recommendations and tips along the way as to what to try out next.
The sticky’s are important to read especially the ones in the introduction section like this one :
I look forward to hearing about your adventures with pheromones.
Your gc is on it’s way!