Your on your way, MrsP! Great that you have the gumption to go out and look for things like mones to enhance your relationship!
I’ve been married many years and have found that IS and IH are great for being relaxed and at ease with the spouse. The IH will just get the convo’s flowing with a more intimate connection. I’ve also given as gifts to my wife IS and IH… I got help from the forum and started a thread on it here:
Really, once you see how they enhance things, you’ll be getting some great effects!!!
Let us know how it goes! It’s always good to see how mones affect different relationships!