Looking to brighten the spark in me everywhere I go 
Welcome!
With such an attitude I bet you already brighten lives. Your post made me smile.
If you tell us a bit about yourself and your personality we can make some suggestions. Also, check out the sticky post at the top of this forum on how to earn a gift certificate at the same time. It will help offset the cost of an initial experiment.
Hi Eileneh! Welcome to the forum.
Could you kindly tell us more about yourself? Where are you from, and what would you like to do with pheromones, and who are your âtargetsâ? If you provide a little background info, we can recommend products to you, answer questions you may have, and you may qualify for the $25 Gift Certificate! Still, itâs good to see you, welcome and I hope you stick around. 
Well, you just describe ISHINE!
First, Welcome to Pherotalk
Second, in order to qualify for your 25$ GC, you need to introduce yourself to us a little more than that 
For example, what are your goals with mones? Who are your targets? Where are you planning to use them? How is your personality like?
ISHINE is a very light product that you just make you âBRIGHTâ. Some people appear more âhealthyâ and âglowingâ to others. I could tell that my brother has actually a very FUN positive fun around him when he sprays ISHINE on. Hits are going to be stronger with strangers, since they arenât used to âa pre-pheromone signatureâ to you.
Hope we hear from you soon
Welcome to Pherotalk Eileneh!
We can tell how you to brighten your spark and help you get the products to do so.
All you have to do is give us more info :
How did you find out about this site ?
What is your personality like ?
Tell us more in detail if you can what do you mean by spark, what do you hope to gain from wearing mones
Hello,
My goal is to come out. Not the closet cause I am a true believer in the male female relationship, to the bone! I am 50 year old female not bad to look at J. I tend to be reserved in unfamiliar or uncomfortable surrounding. Slow to speak up. Itâs like my thoughts come to me miles down the road like an aftershock from an earthquake. On a professional level I can be corporate, but still reserved. Currently Iâm managing a unit at a social service public service agency. The public can be a trip especially in the social service field. Iâd like to spend more time out on the floor interacting with everyone but my confidence in a public setting stinks. I feel nervous; luckily most of the staff that works with me is superb, so this flaw in my personality isnât as obvious. One on one or in a team setting Iâm fine. The humor is there and I can make a point clearly. On a personal level most see me as knowledgeable and forthcoming. I know I am highly respected, but thereâs something missing in me. I want to be out spoken and say whatâs on my mind even when whatâs on my mind might not be what someone wants to hear. My relationship with my guy, I want a boost in that area too. Our relationship is 36 years old. Married young, the marriage will soon be 33 years old. We matured together. Not as young children. We were both in our teens, me 15 him 18. I look at him as my savior. I was a naĂŻve uninformed female, running around being taken advantage of by most males. My guy straight thug. I might even say I was a female thug. Heâs straight forward, says whatâs on his mind. He isnât as blatant as he was when we were younger. Our relationship is very colorful most say they are surprised we are still together. Like I wrote we matured together. We are committed to each other. The introvert side of me is everywhere I go. I have been to the head doctors. That feels like a waste of time and money. Recently I read about pheromones and I have been experimenting. I havenât yet gotten what I think I am looking for or need. The product from a couple of places smells itâs hard to imagine any one becoming attracted to that smell. Itâs really musky almost like frying pork loin or a person who needs a hygienist. Two places the product smells nice. One sort of sweet and the other floral, I mixed them the stinky stuff and the nice smelling stuff with lotion and other fragrances, bubble bath, body spray and perfumes. My personality seems just a tad more upbeat and I have been being upfront in a kind way with people close to me. My guy seems to be interacting with me differently, but I also just came into double digit thousands. It could be the $$ and the stuff. Things are the same in bedroom. My thoughts tell me I want to go way out sexually, but in action Iâm uncertain about really going all the way. Heâs respectful. Sometimes I feel we are just too quiet and routine. All of that to say what is wrong with me? Will this pheromone product work or am I wishing on a star? If I am not wishing on a star which product should I be testing? This experiment is really becoming expensive. I am getting ready to send an $80.00 dollar product back. I like to smell, but it doesnât seem to be doing what I want it to do. The other product I keep purchasing isnât expensive and I like the scent even if it does accomplish what I am out to accomplish. The scent is pleasing for me. Feed back please.
Thank you so much for the background info, it makes things a lot easier on us. You said youâd already been experimenting - specifically which products have you used, for what purpose and how effective did they seem to you? If they were AD products, it makes things easier, but if they werenât, some of the experienced users here may be able to help you. Iâm very new to pheromones in general, so itâs going to take someone beyond my age and experience to give you the awesome advice youâre looking for, but still, Iâm going to recommend the AD âsocialsâ to you - Instant Shine and Instant Openness in particular. Instant Shine will give you that mood lift, and will make you seem more youthful and fun to be around and Instant Openness will make people chattier, and hopefully help you to approach new people. Still, pheromones donât do all the work, but should be a good starting point to help you merge into the kind of woman you want to be.
Thanks for responding. I have purchased four different products Jelique Pure Instinct, Human Euphoria Pheromone Perfume, Max attraction and the fourth one I forgot the name. Pure Instinct has a pleasant smell, does nothing, the Human Euphoria smells musky, Max Attraction has a soft floral smell. I seemed a little more relaxed with the Max, My guys reponse isnât different. I will try the suggested items.