Hello All! What a relief to have found this place! I’m a female in the 26-30 age range, currently residing in the US. I am not completely new to pheros, but far from being an expert. I dabbed into it here and there a few years ago, but stopped using whatever I had before I got married. Oh, I forgot to mention that I am married. Yup, I’m married.
So, what am I doing here if I’m married? I think my marriage is in need of some help or a lot of help. I’m struggling to try and make this marriage work, but for the life in me, I can’t seem to get a genuine, heart-to-heart kind of a talk out of this guy. Ummm, I was referring to my husband.
I know pheromones are powerful and may be able to help salvage this marriage, not that I’m completely relying on the pheromones to do the work for me. I just want him to open up, tell me how or what he feels, and TALK/COMMUNICATE! That is one of the main things I want to achieve from using pheros again. If nothing works and it’s just completely dead between us, I won’t be turning my back on pheros. I will be coming back for even more.
So, do I qualify for the $25? LOL! I’d like to get started as soon as possible.
If anyone can make any suggestions, I would greatly appreciate it.
Hi and welcome to Pherotalk
Yep, sure this does qualify for the 25$ GC
Now, I would recommend you buy IH. This should deepen communication a little bit between you guys. Include Instant Sexiness A in your order too. You will appear more alpha. Your husband might actually listen to you.
These should be your top 2 procuts. Include also ISHINE if you would like. Very fun and light product that will put you and him in a great mood. Also IO will increase the AMOUNT of verbal communication. IO = quantity IH=quality
Hey Laila, welcome to the forum.
From what I hear, the product you’re looking for is Instant Honesty. Like PheroJack explained, it’ll help ‘deepen’ the conversation, and I’ve read plenty of reports saying that IH helped them to communicate and talk about difficult or personal issues. But is different, giving the other socials a chance wouldn’t hurt either, because you may just stumble upon the perfect one or your guy/situation. Let us know how it goes, good luck, and I hope to see you around!
Well a lot of members are married and are here for various reasons similar to yours. They need a little boost in the relationship whether with communication or on the sexual side.
I do agree that IH is one of the best products to increase deep communication and intimacy. It can help him feel comfortable opening up more.
Generally I dont suggest advanced products to new members but as you stated you have some experience and P74 has been around for some time. This is not a mix but a single molecule putative that you can use along with your IH to increase the affection and bonding between you and your hubby.
While Instant sexiness is a fabulous product I am not quite sure it A will fit you or your situation. I would need to know more about your personality and your husbands.
Ishine would also be a good choice just to project a warmth and charisma and put him in the positive mind frame to connect more with you.
If you need help or have questions just ask. Hope to chat with you in the forum.
Thank you PheroJack, Spinach, and Tisha23 for welcoming me and for all your suggestions. I will definitely be getting Honesty and I’ll look into the rest of your suggestions. I guess it will be best to try different combinations and see what works the best for my situation.
Tisha23: he doesn’t have a problem with being intimate, it’s just the communication part that is lacking. If proper communication doesn’t build any time soon, this relationship will go down the drain faster than it already has been. Is there anything to have him talk, listen to me, and actually get something out of it. I wish he would step up more on his responsibility, but everytime I try to talk it just leads to an argument or he always gets so defensive.
There is more then one way to be intimate. Intimacy is opening up a part of yourself to another whether its sexually or verbally.
It sounds to me like your looking for him to be more attentive, not just communicate more. P74 is great in that area. Another one if you can get your hands on it is EST. They dont sell it here but it does wonders at inspiring them to be more attentive.
Your GC is issued by AD, likely it will be Mickaelia who comes around and checks out the threads. You’ll get an email with the GC Code issued for you to input on your order.
It took about 5 days for me to get my GC from the first time I posted, so… keep that in mind. Also, if your GC was already sent to your email, then possibly, it could have gotten trapped in your Spam Folder.
I’d suggest you PM Mickelia here: http://www.pheromonetalk.com/private.php?do=newpm&u=9850