I’m an early 40’s white male, educated (master’s in a science), living in Northern VA just outside of Washington DC.
Do synthetic pheromones work? Is it a self effect or an effect on other’s or a combination of both. How long does that effect last? These are the the questions that brought me to this site and I have found all this so very interesting. Interesting enough to have made a purchase myself (A314, TUTH, IO, IS, IH, IJ, P83). I have found my results to be completely fascinating at times, while disappointing occassionally.
Could I be seen as an alpha male? Never have been but I would like to give that a try and see what happens. I am an only child who grew up more with books than people. Could pheromones help me smooth out the rougher points in my interactions (which are more like stumbles than anything else)?
I figure the worst thing I could lose is a little money and time.
You have made some great selections there!
Yes pheromones do work in that they influence both yourself and the people in your immediate environment.
Now that you have bought these products this is going to be a time of experimenting and hopefully reporting your findings to all the good people in our pheromone community.
Have you received your free $25 GC? To do this you need to tell more about your personality and what you want to achieve with pheromones. Who do you want to influence - people at work?
I admire how, even as a questioner/skeptic, you stepped up to the plate to experience the world of pheromones!
And in response to your question, you can certainly become the smooth alpha male with, or without mones. Through experience, I believe that pheromones are able to alter how one is perceived, but on the forum, you can see that many of us talk about something called congruence. I believe that it is key for success with the products. These are not just magic substances! One has to act accordingly to “fit” the vibe you give off: Remember that change has to start from within. But you don’t necessarily have to bust your butt trying to be the alpha, it’s just that it comes easier and somewhat naturally with the help of mones. And don’t get me wrong, some of the effects (on self and others) these things give off are awesome and quite surprising..I hope you can see the changes with yourself and others as I did!
I suggest for you to get familiar with the forum as there are many friendly folks who will able to give you some insight on individual products you ordered. There is many..and I mean MANY things to learn from the information compiled by the dedicated users of this forum. You can even post your own experiences and evaluations of the products as well.
Sweet selection by the way! I think you’re going to be off to a good start with those . The selection you have picked would definitely help you with your socialization skills. I also suggest that you go out to places and speak to others you are unfamiliar with..Your success is only as good as your efforts. Experiment away my friend. I look forward to hearing from you!
I’m a moderate intravert, who is intuitive, thinking, and perceptive. I think that covers the myer-briggs personality indicator. I’m pretty quite. I have positions of responsibility but I don’t have a natural leader’s abilities. I spend way too much time pushing people. I’m more interested using pheromones to help direct people from a leadership position and I would like to see if it can help me make more friends, especially among people who don’t have the same level of education as myself. I don’t have an problems with blue collar people, hell, I realize the importance of those positions and respect them, but those of the kind of people who simply don’t like me. \
Never been married and would like to. Slightly over weight. Don’t sleep enough.
Anything else you would like to know? O positve, nonsmoker. Just let me know.
Again from the further information you have given me you have selected well with your pheromones. May I suggest when you are using A314 that you use it very sparingly as it is a very potent product. I generally use it with IH so that I have the authoritative vibe but mixed with the rapport and the closer bonds. You get the respect without losing the approachability.
The social pheromones are fantastic and just help you to focus and give off that friendly vibe and reduce shyness and negativity.
I hope you have fun and don’t get put off when you have a bad day. We all get them now and again. Remember to have some days phero free - this helps to give your neurotransmitters time to refresh. You will learn when to have a break when you feel irritable and edgy but this is few and far between.
This thread is a great first starter for you to read :
In addition to that I can see you got at least 1000 questions and so that you can get all of them answered and not forget with waiting for a reply I suggest you contact our pheromone expert Steve.
I know that this will be a very interesting experience for you.
. The selection you have picked would definitely help you with your socialization skills. I also suggest that you go out to places and speak to others you are unfamiliar with..Your success is only as good as your efforts. Experiment away my friend. I look forward to hearing from you!