New to PheroTalk site but I’ve been using pheremones for a few years. Had good success for the most part but I am not very knowledgable. I am confused on what part of the mixes are working where.
Now I know couplins and how they work, that was an easier one to figure out/remember what it does.It’s some of the other social types that I really dont know anything about. I know there is something working, something that makes guys and girls more chatty/flirty with me when I am out. People at work are more open, sometimes telling me things that are really personal for the level of our friendship (that is we just work together) they just seem to be more open and trusting.
I hope to learn more about pheremones so that I can use them wisely and know what affect they are intended to have. I want to use them to just enhance interactions that I would normally have at work and play. That is really what I would like to get out of this site, through reading old post and being involved in new interactions.
Now I will tell you a bit about me: I am 42, a big cury girl, can have fun anywhere, never met a stranger, live in a small town, work in a bigger town in a fairly serious field where I manage claims adjusters, and as I said above just looking to enhance my personal interactions at work and play.
My questions are:
What works best for a female to generate respect in the work place (dont mind coming off dominant but want to appear caring also)?
What works best in social situations to make me seem approachable and easy to get along with but not give off an overtly sexual vibe?
Thanks!
PS Please ignore my spelling errors. I am using an extra small keypad with out spell check and know it is one of my weaker areas.
Don’t worry - I’m on a dying keypad too. Particularly the spacebar! :o
I can’t offer advice on the full range of pheros as I’m a man but I can say there are a few products in the Instant line that are unisex and very useful in the social sphere - They are:
IS - Gives a happy/good to be around feeling
IO - Promotes conversation.
IH - Promotes closeness and bonding
Also CTTM2 from the women’s line - Which is also effective in a unisex environment. Sort of a more intense IO IME.
IS and IO/CTTM2 strike me as maybe the most useful to begin with - especially if you already have few problems getting into deep convo. Mind you, if you want to enhance that, lob-on some IH and see what happens!
Hello, genx! Welcome! Thanks for the nice introduction. The gentlemen have given you some great suggestions. Although MX300 is out of stock. Unfortunately, there’s nothing else like it in stock that I can suggest.
It’s great that you have some experience with pheromones. AD makes some of the best! As to which part of the mixes are working where, well, that’s a good question and it’s what we do here, primarily. We try to find out exactly what these molecules do. PheroTalk is primarily a research and development forum, so we test the various mixes of pheromones and also putatives which are suspected pheromones. We use them and report back. Then AD collects our reports. Basically this forum is to advance testing for AD products. Most of their formulations are proprietary so they are not released. Don’t want every Tom, Dick and pheromone company comin’ along and absconding with their formulas. It’s kinda a dog eat dog business and they have to be careful.
Anyways, the Instant/consumer line has been tested for years and has been found to give consistent results so that’s what we recommend you start with and you shouldn’t have much trouble seeing hits.
So, Instant Shine for a bright/happy/feel good about you vibe. It’ll probably give you a nice uplifting self effect as well. You can’t go wrong with a little Shine and God knows most of us could use some. Instant Openness makes approach on both sides easier. This one contains primarily anol which can have a very chatty bent to it. You might do better with Instant Honesty, primarily bnol, as it’s often suited to business situations because it inspires bonding on a deeper level that allows for more meaningful conversations/interactions. Of course, both can break the ice in social and business situations. It just depends on which one suits you and your purpose better and how your targets react in response to the chemical signal/message you’re sending them. None of them have an overtly sexual vibe but I have to say that even the so call “social” pheromones, can go a long way to help a sexual vibe along should you be inclined to use/steer it that way under the right circumstances.
Speaking of that, you might want to throw some Instant Sexiness B into your order as well and see how a confident, soft, girly vibe does ya for some playtime fun.
Pheromones are subjective as to your self reactions and how others react to you. Everyone is different and therefore everyone isn’t going to get the same results. Something else we talk about is being congruent with the signal you’re sending. For example, if you wear Instant Shine and park yourself in a corner they won’t just be drawn to your “aura”. They might initially think the signal is coming from you because it is but then if you don’t act appropriately they’ll became confused and you’ll ghost/they’ll ignore you. Or it’s even possible that they could mistake the friendly, smiling guy next to you as the “shiny” one. That’s referred to as “stealing your signature”. Every phero user’s fear, lol. So, if ya pony up to the bar and do your part, you should be good to go. And girl, when you get goin’, you’ll be back for more!
Genx, check out the sticky threads at the top of each forum. Especially the “What pheromones can do and can’t do for you” sticky. Those threads are very helpful and should be able to answer some questions for you. Then if you have any more questions just post 'em over in the women’s forum and we’ll be glad to help.
The lovely Mickaelia will also be by to issue your $25.00 Gift Certificate in a few days when she’s feeling better. * Looks both ways *… rumor has it SteveO pushed her into the pherovat when he found out she spiked his new ICM mixes with boat load of Instant Sexiness B! Shhhhhhh…
Hi thanks for joining PheroTalk. In normal situations Mickaelia, one of our forum hosts, would stop by and personally welcome you, but she has been out the last few days. I’m sorry that nobody else has been able to swing by and welcome you properly and offer you personalized assistance. I’ve been doing my job and Mickaelia’s for the past three days and I guess everybody else was just to busy to help out .
With that said I am gathering the information to issue you your GC to your registered forum email address. You should check your SPAM box, as it sometimes has a way of ending up there. I totally appreciate your patience in this matter. While it would have been super-awesome for others to step up to the plate and offer assistance, it didn’t happen for whatever reason. Please do not let this influence you as to the community we actually are.
In the meantime if you don’t see your GC by end of the day today, please send a PM to Mickaelia to look into it when she returns. I’m really unsure when that is going to be, but hopefully soon. I will not be able to answer any PM’s about missing GC’s until I am caught up with the regular ones. This can seriously take a week so it would be better to contact Mickaelia. I will do my best to help out though .
I have one of the busiest PM boxes on the forum and asking for personalized help via PM, will just be met with a reply to post it on the forum. It’s not that I don’t want to help you, but I simply don’t have the time to answer PM’s and still help people on the forum. I totally appreciate your patience and understanding, but I didn’t want to leave our newest community members waiting in the wings. I’m just glad I was able to step up to the plate myself
Although MX300 is out of stock. Unfortunately, there’s nothing else like it in stock that I can suggest.
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