Hey kreative!
Welcome to PTalk.com!
Well, it also takes work in terms of building trust and mutual understanding between each other to make relationships work 
In terms of the uses of mones, there are some mones which you can consider using;
- IH and IO - to build mutual understanding
- IS/b - for that extra sexiness spice
- IS - for that feel good vibe
You might also want to read up on some information on this site;
Well kreative, hope that you enjoy your stay in this community feel free to ask questions, we all learn when you do!