Hello guys this is Chris from San Diego and I want a little boost up I will be going to College pretty soon and still have had no luck with girls it seems I lack the initial confidence to initiate conversations with girls. I have been close several times but I start too late to being open with girls I like. Any tips guys?
Instant Openness and Ammunition should serve you well. I’d personally toss in some Instant Shine too just for the self-effect (but I get a good self-effect from it).
I also always recommend the following three threads to newcomers. They to me are essential and must read threads.
An Introduction to pheromones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of
The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies
and
Using pheros for confidence/self effects is a strange thing - mainly because any effects can vary widely between individuals and also between individual pheros.
Some get a great deal, others nothing at all - So I’d be wary of suggesting pheros on those grounds alone. Then there is the matter that some of the pheros most noted for confidence self effects are not the best ones to help you talk to people as they can come-off as aggressive/overly horny, or aloof/remote/standoffish. So it can be a self defeating effort. Then there is the matter that some self effects can be very fleeting, with you getting used to them rather too quickly.
However other pheros do help create opportunities that you can more easily take advantage of by stepping-in and talking to/opening on people and those advised above are all good. Use them, in conjunction with other more solid and long-lasting methods to improve you confidence and you will have far better results overall - one supports the other very effectively. ![]()
So for my purposes do you think I should experiment with self effect applications then? I don’t think I need something for girls to be open with me lol the girls I’m interested are confident and open to begin with, I just don’t respond with them because I almost feel intimated at times by some girls that are like that. /:
Edit: Sorry Mobocaster missed your post I’ll update my response. Thanks for putting your time guys appreciate it! ![]()
Welcome Lemonade,
This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will.
I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie.
We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually.
It takes a great deal and I am back logged.
I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to
In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service.
Thank you for giving pheromones a chance.
Your gc was issued!