Instant Openness and Ammunition should serve you well. I’d personally toss in some Instant Shine too just for the self-effect (but I get a good self-effect from it).
I also always recommend the following three threads to newcomers. They to me are essential and must read threads.
An Introduction to pheromones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of
The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies
and