I’m going to find a thread in my bookmarks to help you get enough information to decide. Now, in the putative line, P74 might be just right for getting shy men to open up. However, I’d like to see you try Instant Sexiness first. One version (A) is heavy in TAL and the other in TAH (Sexiness B). They are very different in how they affect you and others. Read up a bit and tell us what you think please.
Androtics products don’t contain cops, but these threads give you info on Sexiness A (TAL primarily) and Sexiness B (TAH primarily). Formulas change from time to time, but the information here I think is still good to help you make a selection. On those occasions where I wear a bit of TAL, it sometimes makes girls a little wild. Fun stuff.