Hello!

Hello! I have been lurking for awhile and reading about every web site I can. This is a very detailed topic. You folks here seem very smart, honest and open. :slight_smile:

I am 36, confident, upbeat, and can be talkative socially. I am also single. I get looks, but rarely approached by men. Or I only get talked to if I initiate. Guys say I am easy to talk to - but as a freind! Some say that I appear stand-off-ish too. I secretly struggle with a bit of a low self esteem (not a ton, just a little) when interested guys are around.

Please help me on my first purchase. I want to have guys approach me! And I want them to want to be more than friends! Specifically, I have a guy friend (of course) that I have had a crush on for years. He flirts from time to time, and is shy.

What would work best for a newbie? How do I get past great guys seeing me as a friend? Oh, and I would prefer to NOT attract the alpha male types. Also, I want them attracted to me, but I’m not looking for a one-nighter either.

Thanks in advance! I can’t wait to hear your suggestions!

Hi and welcome!

Thx for those compliments :slight_smile:

Instant sexiness will be able to help with your self esteem and u will even be even more of an attracting person. If you want to be approached more, instant openness is the product for you. Guys will fight to talk to you!

Instant honesty and instant shine will also be an asset, since they promote deeper conversation and give you a happy mood.

I completely agree. Instant Openness and Shine can really help you. But to get past the “Just a friend” thing, Instant Sexiness would be great for you. Good luck.

Hello Hoping and welcome to the forum.

Mocking bird is probably right with the recommendations as I understand the products and the usual advice the girls give. However, I usually leave the girl advice to the girls. They will be around soon enough - hang in there.

As far as not attracting alpha types - that hurts me - lol. I would prefer to think that you really mean you do not want to attract certain types of alphas. Joking aside - the women’s pheros will attract guys. Period. I am not sure that they differentiate but Tisha will be best able to advise you on that. You will have to sort out the guys they bring your way. Just remember it is probably the alphas who will be responding first to you … for what that is worth. If you do not want an alpha, you may well have to initiate with the shy non-alpha.

Just my take.

Welcome to the forum. The girls will be by soon.

Wow! I got THREE guys to respond! Must be working before I even order! :slight_smile:

BossShank - I see your point. I do like confident men. I guess “Alpha” has a bit of a negative connotation. It will be fun to see what happens.

If the ladies agree, then I’m going with the guys suggestions! Let me know ladies… And thanks!

Hello Welcome to Pherotalk :slight_smile:

Instant sexiness is what you want to get first. Its makes the perfect base mone. Its sexy confident strong and attracts attention.

I also suggest Ishine, this one is warm and upbeat. It draws people to you and makes the wearer and those exposed feel vibrant and happy.

IH would be the next on my list. It attracts but also causes deep intimate communication and a feeling of closeness.

You may want to think about the “big gun” LAM, this is a copulan mix thats very very sexy and will attract men to you like moths to the flame.
Keep in mind cops smell but we can teach you how to cover scent.

If you have any questions just ask. We look forward to your participation.

:smiley: Your GC will be in your email box in the next 24 to 48 hours :smiley:

Have fun

Tisha

What Tisha said.

Also, I would reiterate that if you like confident men, particularly if you want the guy in your life to be chivalrous, dominant and/or the breadwinner, you probably do want an alpha male–just not a jerk who will push you around. I get that; I’m after the same thing. :wink:

I agree that ISexi A will make you seem serious, attractive and strong–which will surprisingly attract a number of men with equal confidence.

Thanks ladies! I will report back. I am so excited. I think all I need is just a little “edge.” It is going to be fun to see… I can hardly wait to order. :slight_smile: