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Well to be honest I don’t really even know where to start with this. I guess I should just explain my situation that I am in first then ask the questions. My situation is this plain and simple I am a shy person when it comes to making any first initial contact with any girl.

This is probably due to a pretty rough past so it isn’t just girls I have problems with meeting now it is also guys. Of course I am talking more less on meeting and working on a friendship.

I wont go into great detail as to what happened to me when I was younger I am sure its self explanatory. I have since had to move from where I grew up to where I reside now due to well having to move for the work I do now.

I have been at this location now for well over a year without any real good contacts being made. I would really like to stir these ladies senses a bit to be able to make that contact. I have always found things easier for me if they come up to me first so I guess that is why I am here.

My question would be this: 1. These women I would like to get to know I really do not mind at all if they become sexually attracted to me. I dont really want to go overboard either. My whole sole purpose here is to get to know them for friendships first. There is one out of this group of girls though that I do want to work on turning things into a relationship with her.

Is this a possibility without making the guys around all mad and crazy at me. What mix would be best for this as I dont really want to come on too strong but I would really like some attention directed my way to make it easier for me to get to know these people.

Hello from a fellow Canadian
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Hey Xitty, welcome!

I’ve had some shyness in the past too. While there are ways to get around it, I do believe there are some pheromones that will help you realize that abit faster. See I didn’t have pheromones when I was younger, I taught myself not to be shy by going cliff jumping. I found jumping off the cliff was the same as talking to women. And once I realized that nobody ever got hurt at the cliff I jumped off of I also realized that talking to women is the same thing! lol

But now you don’t have to go cliff jumping haha, all you need is some ammo and instant openness. Ammo will help you be attractive to women (with abit of respect from the guys) while instant openness will help everyone be abit more chatty. Some women may just start talking to you!

If you find your feeling down, Instant shine is also a good one to bring everyone in a good mood.

Cheers!

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You will get over the shyness thing … to help I suggest Instant Shine (2x concentration), Instant Openness (2x), and Ammunition. Instant Shine is a great product for shy people; it will put you in a great frame of mind for socializing. Instant Openness (they should have called it instant chatty) will get you and those around you in talkative mood. Ammunition will give you a sexy vibe; if you are in your teens go easy on the Ammo. These three products can be used standalone or mixed together.
Welcome to the forum.

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Hey xitty … let me give you some advice, and please take it seriously.

I really dont want to give you this kind of advice, I belive you probably have that enough come from somewere, and belive me, I really dont know you, but I know your problem.
First off this is going to be a very difficult journey for you, and wont be made in one day.

I have a few ideas. that you have to promise me, really promise me you will follow.

The first of them is, do some walking in the park, in the beach if you have, anywere open, even in the street. And say hi to every living creature that is bigger than a cat. I mean a dog, a old woman, a elephant if you saw one in the street, a young woman, a gay, a tranvestite, a policeman, a fireman, a couple. Really do this, dont let people get you down whatever reason, and you can pass saying hi to teenagers if you see a group of them :slight_smile: . But really do this every day, and I promise in 6 months you wont recognise yourself, for the better. :slight_smile:
When you do this, if people ask you why your saying hi to everyone, if they look thrustwordy, respond saying your trying to develop social skills, and meeting new people, and you can even add sorry if you bother them, wich will come very easy for you, but by doing this you may make them pitty you, wich may work in your favor, and they will talk with you :slight_smile: . You have to belive that the majority of the people of this world are good people the great majorite, if they somehow seem more cold distant or even jerks, you have to understand that everybody suffers, some more than others but you have to be in their skin to understand how much they suffer with their problems.

Also change your nick here in the forum, I really hope there is no conotation between xitty and shitty. You are a person, even if yourself esteem is that low, you dont need to tell it to the world.

One more thing, you really dont seem to like yourself, I can imagine, maybe your body, so go to a gym. EVERYDAY. You can change yourself, you can do everything, but you have to belive in this, even more when the strength is missing you. Try to talk with the monitors everyday, ask advises socialise :slight_smile: .

I am sorry if I come down raining on you, but for me is really hard to see someone with so low self-esteem and not doing anything I am the kind of kid that would stand between a bully and a abused kid … and belive me, I also have low self-esteem but I know how to identify my problems, and I try to correct them.

In the mones department I am really not going to give any advice, I agree in full with reddog, being Instant Shine the key point and what you are missing the most.

So I hope this helps, and really try make an effort to do what I have posted here…

I am really just trying to help you :slight_smile:

falcos

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Actually no Xitty has nothing to do with that at all its short for Crossity. As for low self estem I may have a bit but as far as others picking on me I dont let it happen no more.

Before when I was in grade school I just tried to take the licks coming in as I never wanted to be suspended. High school became a different story I got the nick name of Brawls and most at that school liked to see me fight most even started taking bets that 100% flat out I would win so no you got me wrong there too.

As far as my body is concerned I am six foot tall and I weigh about 145 pounds I have a six pack I can see so I don’t know what exactly you were picturing but I am not the hottest guy as in not really model material but still very attractive I am not ugly by no means at all.

I just need others to feel comfortable around me like I am not a threat and that I can be approached as well as me being a good down to earth guy.

I also wanted to add that I am 32 of course from Canada in Alberta up in the Edmonton area.

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hey xitty, sorry for all the misconceptions, but you really did add little to your description :slight_smile:

I still say shine is the way to go. And for that inhabilitty to strike a conversation with people, saying hi to everyone will indeed help belive me :slight_smile:

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Yeah I definitely think that instant shine and instant openness will do well for you. I have found that too much IO get people talking too much, it gets annoying. I think 2x IO would drive me crazy personally hahaha but definitely get 2x IS. I think mixing these with ammo will get you more specific attention from women. The nice thing is all these come in to-go’s so you can try them.

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Good advises have been said. I agree with Instant Shine and you might consider that 2x concentration. Also Instant Openness is way to go. So those two products and Ammo for attraction. Also something to consider is Instant Gentleman, it can give you some respect.

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Hi and welcome to the forum Xitty;

As far as your first question “These women I would like to get to know, I really do not mind at all if they become sexually attracted to me. I don’t really want to go overboard either. My whole sole purpose here is to get to know them for friendships first. There is one out of this group of girls though that I do want to work on turning things into a relationship with her.

For that purpose: I would highly suggest starting with social commercial line. Communication, I believe is so very important in relating to others. In fact, 80% of people who fail at work do so for one reason, they do not relate to other people. Instant Openness, and Instant Shine are both great introductory for new-comers for they their important purpose of enhances effects of the people you come into contact with as well as yourself. Instant openness (Instant Openness – Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314), the name explains it all. Instant Shine feel good about yourself, and it helps to bring that feeling across to others just as well.

Daset, and Falcos have given you good advice base on their solid experiences; I’m thankful that this forum, has members such as these two, and the many others that are part of this place; you can rest assure. This is the place to be.

We all must seek self improvements. We all must strive to take the initiatives and seek challenges that builds us up; to help the on going growth of our characters, this is and should be a continuous process.:slight_smile:

Think positive, even if things don’t seem far, be positive and have an positive outlook toward life.:slight_smile: Final thought,… love yourself, and always encourage yourself. Everyday encourage yourself.:slight_smile:

cheers,

MVKBugatti

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Hi Xitty, welcome to the forum!

The guys have given you some great recommendations.

My suggestions, if you could have only three, would be Ammo, Instant Openness and Instant Honesty.

Ammo will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost, and can be worn comfortably in any environment.

Instant Openness totally helps with first initiating conversations, people around you become much more talkative and friendly.

Instant Honesty adds depth and intimacy to conversations, others will feel more comfortable around you and will be more likely to open up and confide in you. IH will definitely help you be seen as more approachable and down-to-earth.

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Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too :slight_smile:.

I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too :slight_smile:. Its cool!

Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one.

Welcome to the forum.

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Well thank you Mickaelia I am glad that I am able to be a part of this community. I am also sorry for not putting good precise info within my first post but it did make for some great conversation as I was able to learn a bit more on this.

I also know about a few things I might post about here soon for anyone who really likes weight lifting that wants to strive to be natural.
My experiences with a few products I know of that are natural that in turn from what I have read and heard also help with male potency. Yet of course there are some side effects to it that may not be good for everyone.

I will explain all that later as I will have to dig up the info on it.