Welcome to Pherotalk Tiggs!
Pheromone are not magic and only work with you to enhance and bring out what is already there.
The mood lifters and products like instant honesty that fosters intimacy are great but it is nice to know the root of the problem and why you are feeling depressed, over sensitive and defensive.
I am including a link in this post I think you should read. I am glad you are here and think that many of the married and divorced and advanced pheromone users have much to offer you and will assist you i many ways.
Your gc is on it’s way!