im new, i dont know howcome my initial post didnt show, it said something about being invisible
BUT
what would you advise for a head turner that will get females attention at work, im new there but there are so many women that i would love to get to know there, its SILLY, i gotta have something that can get me ‘IN’ with one of them, but i cant have dudes that have accepted me start hating on me
i can cover it (i hope) if it would be deemed as inappropriate, i just need something that i can duck the hatred from guys, but get me the initial attention or conversation opportunity i need with any of the hotties in my office, i can handle it from there with my indirect ‘game’
women like me once they get to talk with me, but i am cautious about approaching woman at work because im new and dont want to cause any problems, and also because i dont want to pidgeon hole myself either be counted as a dude who went for ‘this girl’ or ‘that girl’ and maybe even got played
please advise somebody
cslim