So I have been trying a combo of A314a and IS. I hit the A314 1x on center of neck and ISx2 on the sides of the neck. I don’t have dpg or lotion so I use Emu oil to try and get the mones to last longer.
I work in a hosp, so I’ve decided to try and avoid overtly sexual type stuff, or anything inappropriate.
So far patients are reacting the same or positively. They seem to feel safer with me and more at ease (not a new thing, many pts have told me for years they feel safe with me - good bedside manner I suppose)
I have noticed a few things..guys seem a bit more standoffish..whereas guys usually want to talk and hang with me as “one of the guys” I notice guys are more distant and cool. But that may be just me, not sure.
I work with alot of asian and AA women and they mostly seem more drawn to me and calmer as well. I’ve noticed even a bit of leaning against me, as well as asking me what I prefer.. etc.. One Asian lady- early 30s, who works in another dept and rarely talks to us, has been acting more friendly, hanging out near me, generally going out of her way to say hi.
So far so good.
But there was one weird reaction today. There is one lady- mid 30s- who I kind of like. I am pretty sure she has at least a small attraction to me as well. We talk in private often, had lunch once or twice, etc. I have been tempted to try a more sexual mix on her to see what happens, but I don;t want headaches and.. you understand.
So today she walks up to me and say “there is something up with you?”
What do you mean? I ask
“I don’t know.. something is off”
I say I didn’t sleep very well, maybe that was it?
“No, its something else.. you seem unfocused, RESIGNED. Your profile is different! what is going on with you?”
I say I have no idea.. I feel fine, definitely not resigned to anything, just a bit more relaxed than usual
She continues to insist. But she can’t peg it, and I can’t really tell if its bad or good, as she just keeps saying different… etc
So I thought, maybe I should hit the IS again (its been about 6hrs since the morning) and I do ISx2.
On my way out we talk… she says again that she feels something is up with me and that its more than just being “calmer”.. something is up.. she seemed a bit more playful about it.
Any ideas? What was that? We get along really well… this is the first time I’ve seen her say anything of the sort. I’m a bit confused by her reaction, but I think it may be significant. Help?
Yup. That’s exactly what A314 will do for you around people who don’t know you.
Your status has just taken a big hike around the guys. You are now a much bigger guy to them - and they are probably sizing you-up/wondering if they should be asking you to hang-out. You will now have to step-up and show them its still OK to do so.
Asian women and rone. What more can we say - This is a notable pairing!
This woman thinks she knows you but you have just pulled the rug out from under her feet and she has to re-evaluate you all over again, Your new found status is affecting her preconceptions. Don’t worry, she will readjust soon and provided you don’t betray your new signature to her, everything will be for the better. A lot of people who knew me took a while to readjust when I started with A314. Maybe around a month, or a bit longer for some but eventually it all sorted out ok.
I wouldn’t suggest you up the IS to offset this as it is all part of finding your way with A314 - In fact if you feel you must adjust something, maybe reducing the dose a little might be a better approach.
Maybe she was trying to give you an opening to escalate something or maybe she has an a slight idea that you are attracted to her and was trying to fish a little bit.
Mobo-
Wow.. that is so incredibly mind blowing!
I had read about what it would do, but I had a way different image in my head as to how it would be. The reality is going to take a bit of getting used to and making it work in a way that doesn’t upset some of my natural qualities too much. How interesting that I noticed its effects, even though it was not what I had expected at all.
Makes me wonder if that rules out placebo effect?
Yes, asian women seem to be reacting the best to it, so far. I get alot of kin with the asian ladies that already know me well enough to be comfortable touching me, and more attention in general. Good thing I find asian women so beautiful
I’m glad I decided to post this, as I almost didn’t. Your take on this womans reaction feels very right on. It was like she was confused. Thats it, confused. This is very interesting indeed.
That may have been a factor. But we have been really comfortable playing around or inviting ourselves to lunch etc. She tends to be a pretty open and direct person.
For example, the first time we had lunch together, she saw me eating at a local restaurant through the window. She walks right in, sits at my table and sits “yeah, I hope you weren’t planning on eating alone, cause I’m staying.”
Completely dead pan. And she stayed too.
I think we both know where we are and neither of us want ot date a co-worker. But its fun and I sure don’t want to wreck our playful vibe, or her attraction!..Hell, I’d like to ramp it up, even if it never leads to anything. I thik it makes us happier and brightens the day.
A314 does take some getting used to. You may also find you go through a period where you have to readjust to yourself a bit and TBH, that is only the beginning. A314 is by far the most complex and wide-ranging phero product I’ve ever used and I’m still learning/finding new facets to it a good couple of years down the line.
Once you get comfortable with your basic daytime dose, don’t stop there as you will then need to explore a range of different doses (higher and lower) and alongside other to suit your whole range of interactions!
I read the words that described A314- respect, higher status, etc.. and I understood those words… but its a whole other thing to see it in action.
My main areas of concern right now is that I have always relied on two things to help me in social situations- 1.humor 2.an ability to make people feel comfortable by coming across as “being like them”.. common ground so to speak. Hard to describe, but you get the idea.
I’m hoping to retain those qualities… am I correct in understanding that I can retain those qualities, I just have to become comfortable myself with the effects and adjust?
I’m sure I’m being a bit ridiculous worrying, but I want to know- at the end of the day- that it is me people like and value. I don’t want to lose myself…
Its not just what A314 does it what all pheromones do. They communicate a certain image. Just different mones communicate different images. This women knows you, as you said she has shown signs of attraction already and if she is attracted she has examined you from a far a lot. People closer to us will try to place what is making them feel different and because we are more verbal and visual then anything else we try to express it in words by saying something looks different. My husband did the same thing when I started wearing copulins. He tried to place what it was that was different about me. It happens a lot with Ishine to.
The other women probably dont know you as deeply as this women who is attracted to you. They just react to the signal and dont give it a second thought.
The men are taken back because they feel the status change. Its not that they dont like you suddenly so they are avoiding you, its more a sign of respect.
Dont worry you added a quality. Adding one doesn’t mean you took the others away. Your still you… just enhanced.
Don’t worry, you won’t lose yourself - in fact you may find out a few new things about yourself instead but you may have to make a few personality adustments alongside the dose adjustments.
It is true that A314 can project a serious/capable and maybe slightly solid vibe that can initially seem at odds with humour, so you may need to be a little more proactive personality/humour-wise to offset that, at least till you come through and adjust to it. People will still appreciate your humour and be comfortable around you but in a more “following your lead” way. So again, if this is getting too opressive, try reducing the A314 dose a little rather than increasing the IS - IS is far shorter acting than A314 and could need topped-up several times across the day to maintain its effectiveness. IMO it is better to find a functional dose level with the A314 alone, then supplement rather than moderate it with the IS when needed. This results in far more impact and better targeting.
Since this thread is back up top… and update on that girl I mentioned in the OP.
She has progressed to overt signals of interest. she brought me a coffee recently- out of the blue- she asked for my number so we can get together and have a drink..
We work together so I am still wondering if its wise, but I can’t resist. She’s a hottie, and relationship material in every way…so hopefully soon we’ll get that drink.
The big thing here is that the difference in behavior started ON THE DAY I started using the mones. Instantly. I think we have always been attracted to each other, but I think the mones finally pushed things to the point of her not caring about working together, or something.
