Hi there! I’m a 28 year old female just finishing up with grad school and I’m quite terrified about the transition to real life! Although I’m smart and reasonably good looking, I have confidence problems around peers and managers, in professional settings and in interviews. I feel the best side of myself never sees the light of day! I also struggle in relationships, don’t feel confident around men despite having a good sense of humor and interesting hobbies and stuff… I feel I’m not giving myself a good chance and totally wasting myself . So, I’m looking for that extra ‘oomph’ and was wondering if pheromones work!
I came across this googling after reading about pheromones in a magazine. I’m not sure whether or not I should take the plunge because I’m extremely skeptical and think I’ve lost it! I’d love to hear from people what I should try and whether it will actually make a difference.
Welcome to the forum! There are alot of us here who use pheromones to overcome shyness and ease our career-oriented interactions, as well as to enhance personal relationships.
If I had to suggest just a couple of Androtics to try for what you describe, I’d probably go for instant sexiness B and instant openness. I find the latter to be especially good to help with icebreakers among groups of people. The former is great for giving that special youthful vibe and sparkle. These would be good all-purpose products to try.
My personal favorite Androtics product is instant honesty. It is great for helping to enhance deeper conversations, and I personally find it produces self-effects that help me communicate.
Welcome to the forum Starfish2! Terrifying indeed if you’ve been schooling since HS, yes, I can see that being a stumbling block in confidence in this new environment.
However, I think that you’ve got many positives going for you… they just need to be the foundation to support your confidence in yourself. Extra oomph, you say? Mones will provide that. They will help you with some of that confidence and I think Instant Shine, gets me some confidence as I feel smiley with it on. Others around me are relaxed, though, I don’t have the same reactions in professional settings as the environment doesn’t quite open itself up to a kick back kind of attitude.
For confidence around others, my wife uses IS/b. I just got her a 30ml bottle and she does get a boost in self confidence with it on. I can tell when she’s using the IS/b, it makes her hot!
You can get some of these mones in a togo with the GC that you can get and basically try them out for free! Then, sometimes AD will thow in a free bee Togo bottle with your order… so more joy there. Or, in the comments section when you’re placing your order, you can ask nicely if you can have a sample of XYZ mone… pick one…
Hey, you are an articulate gal with some nice assets!!! Play them up and use them, you’ll naturally see your confidence grow! Now, this forum also has several threads that’ll help you out in social settings as well, so check 'em out, like the stickies in the Women’s forum.
Thanks everyone for being so helpful! Just got Togo sizes of ISb, Honesty and a sample of Openness! (What amazing service btw!) Look forward to trying it! Is there any discussion on how to start using it for the first time or something? Thanks!
and read up on the Stickies at the top that will help you out with starting out. I personally like both Intro to Mones by Steve O and Tisha’s How to know if I’m getting hits, both on my Signature Below.
. So, I’m looking for that extra ‘oomph’ and was wondering if pheromones work!
