Instant jerk might work for you. Copulins would increase there testosterone, then you’d have the strong -none signiture to boot.
Get them worked up, then slap them with some raw sexuality.
I don’t know much about gay men though.
I just found this thread where MHarris himself gives out some information on gay men and pheromones.
From what i’ve read mystery boy may still be up your ally.
MHarris said it has some shine and spaceland elements. I’m assuming that means it has a lot of alpha androstenol.
I’m pretty sure that’s your life of the party thing. It’s more social than what I feel you are viewing it as.