Good Day! My name is Gary and I am fairly new to the world of pheromones. I have used N10Z before and didn’t see much difference and just ordered PherX for gay men and kinda regretted it after reading a few negative reviews
The reason I am here is to comprehend the complexities of pheromones and in particular, pheromones for gay men.
In the heterosexual world, it is easy for straight women to select a pheromone that will attract the opposite gender, which is straight men. However, for homosexual men, there are certain roles which are unique in a gay relationship, i.e. Active/Passive, Top/Bottom, Masculine/Feminine and I am not sure if the pheromones marketed as gay pheromone addresses such complexities.
Does it mean that if I put on a gay pheromone, I will attract more feminine gay men or will I attract a hunky manly gay dude? Or because I am more introverted and takes on a passive role, should I put on pheromones for women so that I can attract more manly gay guys instead?
I hope the above makes sense and if you have experiences for a gay guy who is looking to attract a masculine, active top. Please do share!
I am not a gay male, so I cannot give you too much advice unfortunately, but I do know there are some sprays from AD that give you a more “masculine” vibe that not only gay men like, but also attracts heterosexual woman who are into sporty guys (IJ eg). Then there are the pheromones that seem to lower boundaries and give you that more relaxing vibe around you and make it easier to talk to other people (IO and IH), and the last breed are ones that give you that “sexual vibe” of attraction (TUTH eg.). Pheromones don’t distinguish between male and female, however some pheromones do seem to have a better effect on woman than on men and visa versa. Gay males are a rare breed of human and unfortunately there is not much information about the effects of certain pheromones on them. Gay males do however provide an unique insight on the attractiveness of males that you don’t get in the normal reports (straight males only look at reactions from females and don’t see the hidden signs that a gay men emits), and its really helpful if you sent feedback or start a journal The same pheromones that attract a female for short flings will most likely also attract a gay male.
I checked the forums, and I think that Mystery Boy would be your best bet to try out:
If I take the statistical data, I would go for the more “masculine” pheromones, those that provide male users the self-effects of being “aggressive”, “masculine” and “alpha”.
But as I said before, I think its best if you test out and report what works and what not. Statistics only work if you have a lot of data, and I can only give advice based on the statistical data provided here.
A big thank you for the information gathered. I am truly grateful for the insightful advice and will definitely keep a record of my experience! Can’t wait!
Thank you so much Mr Seeker for the insightful advice and my sincere gratitude for taking time to share with me the research on pheromones for gay men. Will definitely keep a journal to document my experiences. Can’t wait!
First off… Your $25 Intro GC is now in your email. You can check your inbox and spam folders after reading this to get the code and use it as soon as you are ready to take the first step of your pheromone journey and discovery.
Second… We have MysteryBoy on board designed for gay males. Its a party mix for gay males. It is suited for relaxed environment where almost all guards are down… clubs, bars, party. There are varying reports with MB use. It seems that both the feminine and masculine type of gay men are affected by MB, well of course, what they see on the MB user’s appearance is a factor not to be discounted too. Even straight male reported guys hitting on them with MB!
Third… Im not gay, and never tried any combo designed for that end. But I think the best mones for catching the attention of the masculine male gay is by using feminine products. It’ll boost or compliment your femininity. The same reasoning goes for masculine male gay to attract feminine type of male gay: men’s mones to augment masculine vibes. It’s basic i think, and maybe one of the reason why MB is the only gay phero we have, a gay phero that can affect both types of male gays.
Fourth.. I might be mistaken. That’s why the last option to find out lies on your hands. Testing. Mixing. Combining. Discovering.
Which brings us to the fifth point. You can call it also the first point if you like.
Happy pheroing!
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Dear MrSeeker and Dee A, thank you so much for the information shared and insightful advice. I am surprised at the openness and overwhelmed by the tons of information and resource available here. Gonna try these mones one by one and document them down.
There is much debate on this topic. As a gay female, I’m right with you when it comes to finding the best pheromones to suit our lifestyle. However, I disagree with most people that say that you should stick with female pheromones. Check out some of my opinions here: Which pheromones should a gay person wear to lessen awkwardness?
IMO it comes down to whom you are trying to attract. Right? If you seek to attract effeminate males, then use more masculine pheromones. If you seek to attract more masculine males, then some feminine pheromones may help when paired with male pheromones.
But take your own sexuality into account. Are you attracted to guys because they’re guys, or because they act like females? I regularly use AMMO + Instant Shine, which many straight males on this forum use regularly. Will you be attracted to me simply because I “smell” like a man? I think not. I think no matter what I “smell” like the pretty package between my legs just still isn’t your flavor. Lol.
So, in conclusion, the two most important things to keep in mind are your own sexuality and your sexual preferences. If you’re a Queen baby then spray on some Instant Sexiness (probably A) and sissy that walk huni. And if you’re more aggressive then spray on some MX353 or AMMO and watch the boys come runnin baby!
I wish you the best. And I can’t wait to read your journal.
The reason for my question is to understand what goes into the pheromones that are marketed for gay men and what kind of gay men will it attract. I am concerned that ‘pheromones for gay men’ was developed with a stereotype that gay men want men that exude masculinity, strength and all the manly traits which will help to gain attraction. But this will result in attracting gay men who are more effeminate.
I do agree with you that pheromones can only influence attraction to a certain degree. And yes, if a girl wears pheromones meant for a man, I think it will not make any sense to me if I am around her, and therefore, won’t gain any interest from me since I am not attracted to women. And this is where I am having a discourse about what should gays use.
Having heard from several experienced users and the mentors in this thread, I’ve decided to use Mystery Boy first to see what sort of people I will attract. If I am attracting the queens, drags and diva type of personalities then I guess Mystery Boy will be too masculine for my liking and I may need to tweak it with TAH/TAL to see if it does change the kind of gay men I meet.
Oh man, I guess I will be so broke if I am going to experiment with all the available pheromones here! Shipping to Singapore is not cheap! I guess it will take a while for my journal to be fruitful to the people here.
Thanks once again for all the advice guys and gal!
Trust me, I already broke the bank… Twice They do however give you reward points + reporting user status (gives you discount on putatives) for those that are active on the forums, help new members and report about new mixes. Its a way for them to save on advertisements on google while maintaining a healthy userbase who provides them with a great insight on their mixes. Eventually they lead to more mixes & more instant line products
Gary oh gary! I would love to have you on board greeting peeps! Simply help us enrich our gay-men literature in the forums. You may take the road taken by Terabithia, as she’s helping everyone here see what’s up with a gay-female, you can do it as a gay-male. Who knows, maybe the two of you can pave the way for future pheromone mixes for gay people.
Thanks once again MrSeeker for the tip. I might be a newbie here with little knowledge but I definitely can be more active here in the forums, welcoming new members.
And to Dee A, thanks for letting me know about the first responder bonus, and I hope I will be able to share more insights on my experience soon once I receive my first bottle of Mystery Boy. Heehee…
Oh, I just found out that the newbie packs are for the first purchase only So because I just bought Mystery Boy few days ago, does it mean I am not entitled to the packs already? Shucks!
No, the ones who know what they need do not need to order the full pheromone package Like the package says, its a “starter” kit, intended for new users. Yes, seasoned veterans can still order one but why should you? I only would buy one so my friends can try it out without having to diminish my own stack, but other than that I don’t see the need to grab one myself.
Hmmm, first responder bonus sounds yummy! Can I get in on that too, Dee? Are we allowed to tell other people about it? I mean I’m more than happy to welcome gays and straights and bis alike - I don’t discriminate. LOL!
There’s not a whole lot of pheromones marketed to our community at all. I’ve taken the “try 'em all” approach. mrseeker was right in that we all have the pheromones naturally occurring in us anyway, just in various amounts.
You truly have to try them to find out what works for you. Mystery Boy is marketed for gay men, but you may benefit from a variety of different pheromones. AMMO is marketed to straight men, and I personally love it. It gets my girlfriend hot and straight women definitely smile and give me sexy looks when I wear it. The bi gals love it too!
Try as many as you can (afford), keep what works for you, and donate the ones you don’t like to a friend…just make sure to point them in the right direction when they ask where you bought it.
It’d be awesome if we could turn this community out!
Its open for everybody T! This is moderated though. We do check if the respond is lively and truly helpful for the newbie. Otherwise, the assigned party host, has the last say whose respond is qualified for a bonus points.
And since it’s open, you are technically allowed to share this to anyone. I must appeal though not to bother opening this one up to undeserving users. We don’t wanna waste time and resources, do we?
Yeah!!! MB just arrive! I’m gonna attempt to use it over the weekend and document down what happens. Anyone tried using MB in a professional work environment? Will it make one lose concentration and focus? I am excited to try it straight away tomorrow but I do not wish to jeopardize my work…
The same pheromones that attract a female for short flings will most likely also attract a gay male.
So because I just bought Mystery Boy few days ago, does it mean I am not entitled to the packs already? Shucks!
Like the package says, its a “starter” kit, intended for new users. Yes, seasoned veterans can still order one but why should you? I only would buy one so my friends can try it out without having to diminish my own stack, but other than that I don’t see the need to grab one myself.