Okay, first thing’s first. I work in a job that could potentially earn me pretty good tips. I was told that MX297 is great for that and that it also apparently will have my managers and things loving me. Idk if there’s anything else I should mix with that to have people loving me or not. From what I read, it seems to be a pretty solid mix as a standalone.
Now let me move into my real dilemma. I happen to be much more introverted than I like to let on. But I’d like to be more… out there? I suppose “love” is a strong word, but I’m interested to know what you guys might think for a gay guy like myself who’s just wanting to get some guys at least interested in me/looking in my direction. I don’t really need a boyfriend or anything, I’d just like to go on a date from time to time. But I’m so incredibly awkward lol and while I am a social person. It’s more like a performance for me (because I am a performer). I’m not really sure how to describe what I’m getting at, lol, i’m starting to confuse myself.
Basically, I’m just wanting guys to be more interested in me. I’m not a bad looking fella (at least I don’t think so). I’m not that uncomfortable to talk to, I can keep people laughing. I’m just really, really awkward lol. And it’s that initial awkwardness that gets me every time, at least I think. I guess I’m just trying to give off some more outgoing/friendly vibes… idk how to be attractive to other guys, though, lol. And I’m not sure if mones can help. But help, please?
I’m not too familiar with it, but I did see that AD released a gay pheromone called Mystery Boy. Not too many gay people are on here so try it out and I’m sure AD will appreciate the feedback
The question I am asking myself here is: Do you want to be the dominator or the dominated? Aka: Do you want to be the male part or the female part of the relationship? I have to be honest I have NO idea how pheromones react on gay people, I am just thinking out loud, maybe it can be a good thing to try out. I would love to know what actually works on gay man (from a scientific standpoint that is).
If you are the dominator, you are the “male” counterpart of the relationship. The hard guy, the male dominator, the heavyweight. So you will have to smell like you are the alpha guy, the guy that the other guys desire so badly. So go for the more alpha male smelling ones.
If you are the dominated, you are the “female” counterpart of the relationship. The soft guy, the female dominated, the one who wants to get taken care of. To get this effect, you need more female type of sprays. However, since you don’t want to smell like a girl, you need to combine the male smell with the female attractant. This will actually cause male persons to be more attracted to you. Males who are straight will automatically start to get confused (they see a male and get aroused when standing too close, some people don’t like that too much). If you are not sure about its effects, don’t wear it with people that are already uncomfortable when they know you are gay. The effect of getting aroused when looking at a female is natural, and shows clearly why many males dislike gay males but not gay females and shemales in a lesser degree (I have to admit, I almost fell in love with a shemale even though I am rather straight. It was when she told me that there was nothing under the bra i realized that I was kissing a man, and then the party was quickly over).
Note also that in behavioral studies, people who are giving out feeling of gayness are mostly finding themselves more socially attracted to each other. So, a social mix is indeed a really good factor to use. Maybe try MX403? It is also a good social mix that you could try.
@gruntl3d: jazzysax had a great suggestion. AD does have a Mystery Boy pheromone that I’m sure will work in your favor. You seem to have an amazing personality already, so Instant Openness will help get the flirtatious chatter going, and AMMO might help seal the deal. I’d look for posts on those and see what other users have reported.
@mrseeker: My oh my where do I begin with you? Since you are admittedly not a gay male please take my r (or anyone gay) in the near future, you’ll probably thank me.
In hetero relationships only does there exist a ‘male part’ and a ‘female part’. By definition, a gay relationship involves two people of the same sex. To that point, gay males are attracted to males not because other males look like males but smell or act like females, but because they are male. Therefore, a gay male is attracted to the male pheromones of other males. Agreed? That’s how pheromones work. And whether you are on the ‘born gay’ or ‘gay is a choice’ side of the argument, there is no denying that as a gay male your physiological makeup is what determines the pheromones you give off. So, gay or straight your pheromones are determined by your physiology, not your sexual orientation. While female pheromones may help to soften gruntl3d’s aura, they should in no way be a main pheromone. That would mean he would smell like a woman (give off women pheromones), and thus gay males wouldn’t be attracted to him. True?
Lastly, there is no such thing as a shemale. There are males, females, transgendered, and transexual individuals…even hermaphrodites if you must. But to my knowledge there is no clinical definition for the term ‘shemale’.
I hope I’ve enlightened you a bit. It’s all a friendly education, so use the grocery store approach if you must.
@jazzysax and terabithia: I’m not sure where I could find said Mystery Boy.. I’m not sure it’s in the store anymore. At least, I haven’t seen it. I could be skimming right over it though.
@mrseeker: I’m not sure what MX403 is to do, but I’ll check into it
@terabithia: Thank you for breaking that down for him. Sometimes I have a hard time explaining that concept without coming off as harsh or brash when I don’t intend for it to be taken that way.
Not true. There have been a variety of studies showing that pheromones work paradoxically in gay men. I expect they won’t be too difficult to find. Thus, something like A1, this being a molecule that, while produced by men, rarely attracts them. A1 works quite well on gay men though, this I can attest to based on their reactions around me, though I’m straight myself. I imagine a variety of female pheromones would do nicely in attracting gay men, most notably TAH and TAL. Still, male pheromones can work just as well - it depends on the man one is going for. The rest I agree with wholeheartedly.