Gary,
There is much debate on this topic. As a gay female, I’m right with you when it comes to finding the best pheromones to suit our lifestyle. However, I disagree with most people that say that you should stick with female pheromones. Check out some of my opinions here: Which pheromones should a gay person wear to lessen awkwardness?
IMO it comes down to whom you are trying to attract. Right? If you seek to attract effeminate males, then use more masculine pheromones. If you seek to attract more masculine males, then some feminine pheromones may help when paired with male pheromones.
But take your own sexuality into account. Are you attracted to guys because they’re guys, or because they act like females? I regularly use AMMO + Instant Shine, which many straight males on this forum use regularly. Will you be attracted to me simply because I “smell” like a man? I think not. I think no matter what I “smell” like the pretty package between my legs just still isn’t your flavor. Lol. 
So, in conclusion, the two most important things to keep in mind are your own sexuality and your sexual preferences. If you’re a Queen baby then spray on some Instant Sexiness (probably A) and sissy that walk huni. And if you’re more aggressive then spray on some MX353 or AMMO and watch the boys come runnin baby!
I wish you the best. And I can’t wait to read your journal.
Until next time…