I’m gay 42, Chinese from Singapore and new to pheromones. I’m not into the club/party scene. To others, I’m just a normal guy, not effeminate but also not the hunky dude.
What smartmones should i be getting if I want to:
Attract men I meet from social networking apps, gym, other venues etc for sexual flings and possibly romance. In general, I prefer younger (18 to 35) and masculine guys.
To make my partners “hungry” for me lol and they would take the lead to get intimate with me as I’m quite passive.
For work place - trust, respect and friendliness from peers, superiors and subordinates.
For friendship and better social interactions with people of both gender and all ages.
Welcome to the forum Jonathan,
While I may not be able to direct you to your perfect pheromone concoction, I can direct you to the to some of our the forum members who can better advise you.
I am going to ask the obvious, and if it’s a silly question please do humor me. Are you wanting to attract gay and bi men? and separately looking for one for work, or are you wanting one that does the lot?
Your answer may assist those that provide recommendations to you.
I’m looking for separate effective solutions that do what they do best. I don’t think it’s good to attract sexual encounters at work lol. But I’m ok with friends at work.
This is just an official note informing you that your GC was dropped into your email earlier. Hope you’ll find it useful in jump-starting your new pheromone journey towards an exciting life.
I’ll have to recommend the Mystery Boy along with the Ultimate Pheromone Intro Pack and A314/sp/B for you.
At work, you can try combining IG and IShine if you are a middle ranked employee or A314 and IShine; if you are a Team Leader, Team member, or an executive who wants to be assertive and yet not off-putting for the subordinates. A314+IHonesty is a tested combo for sales.
LOL I agree with your outlook Jonathan but would not judge if you did aspire toward both at work lolz. Different pheromones accomplish some different tasks.
IO gets people socially comfortable and talking (chatty and friendly mone).
IH can build a deep rapport with people, but can also result in them telling you things they would not normally tell someone
CTTM attracts people to you and incites conversation. It seems to draw people to you to engage you.
As with any pheromone you have to try them yourself to find out what your effective use or “sweet spot” is as we are all different in our chemical makeup. It’s the best way I can explain it without getting over my own head scientifically technical.
The gents gave you a good social, work breakdown as I was certain they would. Hankbuddy has a good journal going.
When you go to the general website you can click on the links to get you to various journals. Hankbuddy has a great journal going and offers an older male perspective. He seems to be similar to some aspects of your social description while dating.
Men’s Journals (https://pheromonetalk.com/c/men-s-journals/22) is the location where the journals are housed for the males, the women have a section as well within the women’s pheromones advice etc link.
The site navigation here is pretty straightforward but can take a little while to get used to.
The link to Hankbuddys journal is in lillians post.
IO this is an icebreaker and good for first time meeting people or good for introverts or shy people
IH will get people to trust you and will have a bonding effect also. Helps deepen impact of conversation and people will tell you all there little secrets sometimes. Very effective.
CTTM this gets people very chatty and may make them feel good to.
So I can help muchwith 1 and 2 from your intro but suggest MB and look at Hankbuddys journal and I am sure you can even message him asking for suggestions and he will help he is a really nice guy.
The items I listed will help with 3 and 4
I all suggest IS as it will go with everything and all your goals.
The 3 you picked you should be able to make work for what you are looking for. They also have 314A and 314B sprays also you could try and might be a good option to.
So depending on what your budget is like you could just get all of it or get one of the 314 sprays and use your money to get the starter pack which has IS in it and get MB to.
This way you would get all the items to test and see what is best for you by testing.
As far as the oil you may have to ask Dee or they may just come in and ask.
Haven’t started using. After seeing how big and fragile the 30ml glass bottles are for carrying around, I regret not getting the smaller plastic bottled sprays. So let’s say for workplace purpose, how much of A314 and IS should I use in the morning? How long would the effects last?Would carrying P74 around be useful? Actually I’m not sure what P74 does but I read somewhere that it is similar to IS?
Similarly, how should I be using MB and TTTH considering the bottle size, say for a date or at the gym?
What does P130 do?
Also, which of the above are safe around children. I don’t want to mess up any kiddy mind.
Have been using A314 oil with IS for workplace for past two days. Most people seem to respect and trust me and being friendly with me but this could be a placebo effect as I feel more confident and smile often.
Have to experiment more.
One thing about the A314 oil. I hate the scent, so i only use 2 drops. I think it might be containing essential oils of ylang ylang or sandalwood or jasmine. It sinks.
So you could get some pipettes and some 5ml Togo bottles and transfer whatever you want to them so yo can take them with you. AD sells both these items to or you could look on eBay or amazon and get them pretty cheap.
The A314 will outlast all the others because it is oil base.You will need a refresh of whatever spray around 4 to 6 hours because the alcohol diffuses a lot faster than the oil.
As far as the single molecules the best thing to do is test them to see what they do and report back on them.
With P74 I have had good luck with just 5 MCG so I would start with a half spray and work your way up.
As far as how much A314 and IS to use depends on so many things. The best thing to do is just test.
I’m facing a big issue with my boyfriend. I’m gay passive 36 yo but he is Bi-sexual dominant 35 active.
We are in a stage where he does not want to even talk to me. We got in argue where he is very disappointed and lost his trust and sexual attention in me. He just lost totally interest in me. What is the best combo mix to take all his anger and that distance away, get back his trust and strong sexual attention, make him feel good, open and comfortable with me with that warmness and love feeling with joyful and happiness. Something that will pull him like a magnet back to me. He is normally under a lot of stress on the daily basics so also something that will make him feel relief in a way.
Should I mix with Mystery boy with something or something different?
I’m so desperate because he mean a lot to me
Please help me