Firstly: Sorry for the re-post, I have deleted the duplicate thread; but I wanted to make my introduction properly so I can get a gift cert too. 
I am a 28 y/o Professional Gay Male, who is of average looks. I am 5’ 8.5", 165lbs, with generally short brown hair which I like to spike and hazel colored eyes. I’m just barely above average weight, but I by no means look overweight. I also have moderate body hair and facial hair, which I keep shaved 80% of the time, with the exception of a goatee I keep trimmed. I live on the Treasure Coast of Florida, the sunshine state. I’ve been out of the dating and social scene now for about 5 years, because of the untimely passing of my ex-lover.
That being said, things have drastically changed for me in the last 90 days. I met someone, which we will get into far more detail about as this journey progresses. I seem to have purpose in my life again, and a motivation and determination to become a better me and prove to this person I can be everything they ever wanted, just as they are to me.
So for the last month now I have been reading up all over the internet about pheremones and their use in various social environments. More specifically, I have been directly interested in the affects pheremones can provide for a Professional Gay Male, like myself, on both Straight Men and other Gay Men in both professional and social environemnts; as well as the resulting affects on nearby women. Much of my research has indicated that truly Gay Men, respond in the same manor in which a Female would respond to a Straight man; they respond to the natural male pheremones. While Straight Men will respond to pheremones like A314 when worn on another male, they require the female pheremone for an appropriate sexual response towards another man.
So the number one question for anyone wanting to try pheremones, “what is it that I want to get out pheremone use?”.
Purpose #1: I want to change the environment in which I work. I am the IT Consultant for a small shared office environment in an industrial area of Florida. There are six offices within the building which come to me for their IT and various other business needs. We are a close tight-nit group that works together and helps each other build our businesses for success. Sometimes, I get a bit overwhelmed and people tend to over-utilize me but not recognize the benifit they have in me. I am very under-paid and very over-worked. After more than a year of this, it has started show. I am looking for something to not only re-energize my attitude about work, but to inspire the others around me to change their attitude towards bothw their work and with me.
Purpose #2: I run several small online companies and a local business which I really want to ramp up into much bigger revenue-generating companies, which I know they can be. I put myself in too many hats and I need some focus and direction for myself and the confidence that I can push things forward in the right direction. I want to boost my own internal self-confidence and reliablity while inspiring others to help me. I want to be seen as a great leader and inspirational figure-head.
Purpose #3: I met another Gay Male just over a month ago. There was an instant an undeniable connection between us; but this person has been horribly hurt in the past and even physically abused by someone they thought they truly loved. This pain has caused a very long and meaningful process of us getting to know each other; but I fear that we may be stuck in a sort of friendship pattern that may make it hard to pursue anything more for some time. The thing is, I know that if he could just take that leap of faith and just give in to what we feel, he would find something more than he ever though he could have. Okay, a bit much to share at once, but it is the truth, all of our friends see it. I am looking for something to help deepen our personal connection, but at the same time ignite a passionate fire to make him want more than just friendship. I want him to feel like he can trust me, open up to me, fulfil his needs with, and know I am always going to be there. Things I know he knows, but is affraid to admit he knows. (I know I can liquor him up and get this affect, but I think he needs to open his eyes and see it when he is sober.)
Purpose #4: There is a persona that I would like to project while out in a bar or night club, but have not quite perfected. It’s something best described as Brian Kinney from Queer as Folk. It’s that guy that all the guys are looking at, trying to figure out. The one everyone wants to and trys to make moves on, but no one is going to get anywhere without his approval. When all of your friends see it and talk about it. It’s insaciable. You may ask why this matters, given the third purpose of pheremone use for myself; but here’s the thing…when I take that person out, it’s very hard to keep him focused, he is very much constantly observing and reading the people around him. I’ve noticed though, that when I dress and act a certain way, in which others notice me; he constantly wants to show others that im his property; which I very much like. So, for me to project that manly in demand feeling, he feeds off it.
So those are the main reasons for me wanting to try pheremones and what you will find me discussing here as my journey unfolds. Nearly all of my research has pointed me here to Androtics Direct and after weeks of debating and calling and reading forums; I decided only minutes ago to take the plunge. I placed the following order:
TOGO-IO
TOGO-TUTH (qty x 2)
TOGO-IS
TOMO-AMMO
TOGO-IH
A314/sp/A
TOGO-IG
I pretty much chose one of every To-Go spray that was available. I would have also ordered Mystery Boy (which I very badly want to test out), but it has been out of stock for some time and from what I hear may not be around again for a while. I also chose A314.A because of the fact I live in Florida and the overpowering number of males my workplace and business. I decided with the To-Go sprays for several reasons..
(1) Pricing for Demonstrative Purposes
(2) Portability and Convinience in Changing Affects
(3) Shorter Duration - Incase of Disasters
My order should be out on Monday and I can’t wait to get Tuesday’s mail to begin some serious testing! I’m working on some very specific testing sceanrios so, please keep an eye out for my postings. If anyone would like to offer any advice or tips on combinations for first-timers, feel free!
As for TUTH, i noticed it helps him accept the fact he is into me and wants to show it more to me both in words and physically. I only wish I would have went for that third spray the other night wink!
I mean did you use TUTH at work??? 