Professional Gay Male in the Workplace

[thebachelorboi]

I’m so excited, I just received an email that my first order of pheremones has shipped and I should receive it tomorrow! WOOT! So I figured it would be best for me to build my first scenario and see how things go.

First, some history. I am a business man who runs a local computer and network support company; as well as a website design and a hosting business. For my local customers, I actually am much more than just a computer person, I’m like a business consultant and entrepeneurial mentor. People get the sense they can trust me with their business in helping them find ways to make it stronger and more successful.

I am very philisophical and I believe in the power of ‘the secret’ and understand many of the teachings of Bob Proctor and like mentors. So, for me; having multiple personal services to offer people is very important.

I am a homosexual, gay male; while I do not broadcast this regularly or promote that fact, people who get to know me eventually find this out and are for the most part absolutely accepting and could care less.

As of now we have four males and female who run a roof truss company, one male owner of the building, a female and male that run a woodworking and trim company, five other males who make up a propane delivery company and an all male crew of 10 plus two male managers who run a gaurdrail and fencing company. All of these businesses come to me for their computer, networking, website, voice communications, administrative needs and also to discuss new business ideas and ventures and how to make existing business better.

As you can see, I am very much looked up to by many of these people for their day-to-day business and other needs. But this comes at great sacrifice to myself. I am asked to do far more than one person should ever be asked to do, given very difficult deadlines to meet and sometimes both underpaid and underappreciated by some of these people. After more than a year of this, it has began to show to others around me and I have started spending less time around the office and more time finding a way out the office.

Thus, my introduction to A314. From what I have read, it is exactly what I am looking for to change the way others perceive me; but to also help give me the look, feel and attitude I need to push on through the day.

One of my first concerns with using pheremones in the workplace, in my situation, is that I have been working with these people for a year or more and they already have a perception of me in their mind. I think it would be a mind trick to continue going to work in my usual dress and manner and keeping the same schedule when introducing the pheremones. I think people would know there is something out of the ordinary at play and would be more suspicious of me. For this reason, I have decided to not only dress in a more non-casual business attire; but also, to come in two hours earlier to work when I begin using the pheremones. By doing this, I believe people will see a more genuine change in my attitude which will make them much more open and receptive to the effects of the pheremones.

On that note, because I am a new users and I am just beginning to test the waters. I am also thinking that it is probably better for me to stay very simple and only use the TOGO-A314.A by itself, providing a more suttle introduction to the changes in myself and my work habbits. I’m interested in what people think would be the best combination of A314 with other products to help specifically in these areas:

(1) Building a Sense of Trust & Reliability
(2) Showing a Strong Sense of Leadership
(3) Inspiring others to want to Help Me/Each Other
(4) Motivating Others to Spread the Word about Me/My Services/Companies
(5) Improving My Self-Confidence and Projection

[thebachelorboi]

So it’s been a few days and to be honest the first few have been part of my baptism, which you can read about in that post. But I want to give some initial opions and lay out a plan for the coming the weeks.

As part of my official baptism I decided to try a few approaches on different days to test different reactions. It is VERY IMPORTANT to keep in mind that these interactions are all from poeple I have already worked with for nearly a year or more and never once used pheromones on them.

TOGO: A314.A

There is something in general about A314.A in this specific workplace, which I think is a little too over bearing for the people I already work with. It’s almost like they are slighlty suspicious about what has changed with me, which I am not sure is the best way to introduce pheromones.

TOGO: A314.A + IO
Actual Dosage: A314.A x1 on each wrist and drawn down neckline from wrists IO x1 on each side of face.

This combination seemed to make people chatty in general. But again, please reference the above reactions.

TOGO: A314.A + IH
Actual Dosage: A314.A x1 on each wrist and drawn down neckline from wrists IH x1 on each side of face.

This combination was hard to judge because of the A314.A reactions, but people were still intrigued by me, just less useless chat and more meaningful chat.

TOGO: IG + IH + Ammo
Acutal Dosage: IG x1 on each wrist and drawn down neckline from wrists + IH x1 to the back of the neck and the forehead + AMMO x1 under neck

This combination, partially recommended by Mickaelia in the introductions forum, this seemed to kick butt for several reasons on the one day I tried it so far. First off, I was very skeptical about using Ammo in the workplace. I was worried it might send the wrong impression to people, as I wasnt looking for anything sexual. But oddly enough, at least the way I used it, it really seemed to have a primary effect on only me; which was a major confidence and energy booster. The IG + IH is what everyone else really got and that seemed to be very good for them.

Instance: I had an unexpected meeting with a client today who has been somewhat overwhelming with work, yet also trying to pinch every penny out of me. In fact, this client only two days prior had cancelled half of their weekly activites with me for a period of time. When this client met with me, they seemed suddenly to be almost completely in agreeance with my point of view on the situation. They almost seem remorseful and suddenly seemed to start telling me they agree they made a mistake and want to work more with me. Not only that he wanted to take the mundane workload off of me and let me focus on bigger more important things. Deciding that not only was I a value, but that my time was worth more. I mean I have to say, I was quite amazed. It was like I could have said or asked for anything and he would have done it.

Instance: I bumped into another client who originally started our conversation with wanting to have a website up and running today for someone. After only a few brief minutes of talking, it changed to giving me the entire week and weekend and it was again almost the same thing, like I could have said or asked for anything and he would have been okay with it. He was also very friendly the rest of the day, making small jokes with me and acting almost chum-like.

Going to try this again tomorrow, might alter it slightly. I’ll let you know more after tomorrows final run for the week!