So i have been reading about pheromones for a while now. The concept itself interests me, however i have been a little weary to see if this actually works.
My friends have always had good luck with girls, but i guess i’m the lame duck in the group. I would describe my personality as humorous and talkative, but when i get around girls i seem to just shut down and i can’t think of anything to say unless a girl confronts me first. Even then i usually answer with something that requires a one word response.
Often I will see girls with the guy who has “i’m a bad boyfriend” written all over him when guys like me could treat her so much better
I’m male, 18 and I have never had a girlfriend. I am about to go off to college and i have no real experience with girls. I just feel like I might not want to step out of my comfort zone when I go off to college. I really just want a way be myself more. I’m definitely not shy, but i seem to only open up when i’m really comfortable with someone or playing sports.
I’m not sure what it is,because i’m not bad looking so there is no reason to not be confident in myself. I’m just really uncomfortable with not being comfortable. Hopefully I will grow out of that when I leave my comfort zone to explore the unknown that is college.
Hey and welcome to the forums dungeonsax.
I was once at the same point you were. The most important thing to learn is that you will not improve unless you PUSH yourself out of your comfort zone. Humans are creatures of habit, we will not do something unless we want to, so growing out of your comfort zone does not really happen. I thought college would also do it for me, but I was stuck in the same place up until the past few months. Remember to push yourself to grow.
That being said, what kind of goals do you have? How’d you find this place? What do you want to do with pheromones?
By the way, if you were also looking for advice on how to get girls, many forum members will be happy to give you some advice.
I really just want to be able to be myself around women and not freeze up. I want to be able to talk to women comfortably and confidently
Well, that’s the kind of thing you need to work on from within yourself. You must push yourself outside of your comfort zone. Eventually you will learn that this is no big deal (talking to girls) and that your anxiety will go away.
BUT, this is a pheromone company and forum, and what a poor one it would be if they couldn’t help you!
For you sir, if i were to recommend you two, i would go with Ammo and IO. Ammo gives you a “i’m a clean healthy guy (and sexy of course) vibe” and IO lets people open up to you easily.
Once you feel like these things are going well for you, try adding on IS which gives you a fun vibe, and even IH which is important for building future relationships. If, instead you want a mature vibe, go for IG.
Pheromones have self effects, and IO will affect your state of mind as well and make you more open. Remember though, to test each pheromone individually so you can see how they may affect you and how they affect those around you.
If you have more questions please feel free to ask.
Welcome to pherotalk dungeon!
I know that media and society makes it seem like a bad thing but how old really is 18. Never follow the crowd my friend take that advice to heart and think about it seriously.
You are young and besides having so much more to life than having a g/f your are producing a good amount of pheromone naturally.
The products recommended are great and we have had many persons come to us with the same problem and this forum and the products have changed things around for them.
It will do the same for you but just remember there is more to life and if your goal in life is to just have a g/f or for someone else to make you happy you never will be.
Your gc was issued! 