There is plenty I could say to you about your last post, and believe me I am very sorely tempted to, but I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt here, that you are merely showing off on a public forum where noone knows you - simply because you can..
One thing I will say, and one word of advice for you is this..
No matter WHAT you think of your mother, and no matter how you feel she is acting, she brought you into this world. She put the clothes on your back, she fed you, and no doubt she has been there for you at times when noone else has, even if you fail to acknowledge that fact.
I am not going to get into an argument with you over this, but speaking of your mother in such a disrespectful, almost degrading manner on a public forum, is neither big, nor clever, and if you were in fact trying to gain support for your “cause” by making those remarks, I would hazard a guess that you have probably achieved quite the opposite.
Not everybody gets on with their parents, and not everybody even LIKES their parents, but we should ALWAYS at least have some respect for them.
Instead of mocking her, why not try to get to the bottom of the changes in your mum, as if she is indeed going through the Menopause, then she needs support and understanding - not name-calling behind her back in a place where she is unable to even defend herself.
Her behaviour may be exactly as you say, and I am not excusing it in any way, but I AM telling you to grow up and realise that people do not take kindly to disrespect of others, in any shape or form.
Perhaps you need to look at not using 'mones around your Mum for a while to see if the pattern changes. Or try using something like Instant Shine or EST, in your mixes as those will help to lift her, as well as you.
Ail )O(