Hello everyone!
My name is Samantha I live in navarre, florida. Im 26 married, shy, i work in retail, love horror movies and reading.
I have been with my husband for 3 years, married 1 year today ;]
we have never had a very exciting bedroom and thats putting it nicely lol
I was recently looking online for perfumes and what not and came across some lotion with pheromones, and thought wow maybe i should try that!
i did search after search and read review after review until i found this forum.. Seems these products are legit. So here i am… to learn ;]
so yeah back to the hubby and the boring bedroom…
OMG its boring borderline not existent
we are both very shy and not very confident when it comes to sex
Its even resorted to i have to ask for it.. he has no ump no drive… weve had
spats over this several times .. ive even asked do you even want to??? he says yes but yet never trys If it happens at all its because i started it and i did all the work! im tired of feeling like im raping him! lol
so im looking for something that will motivate him to put some effort in! get him excited, attract him to me and please oh please some friggin PASSION!!!.. maybe something that boost both our confidence and can help us get over this already!
please any suggestions?
Also looking forward to meeting all of you and reading ur experiences with the pheromones.. Thanks in advance ;]
I don´t have any experience with women´s products, so can´t give you any advice in that regard. However, there are many advanced users in the women´s section that will be able to guide you.
If you have not already done it, you should read all the sticky threads in the womens section, to gain some basic knowledge about how mones work and ehat to expect fron each product. I guess mones can help you with your issues, but they are not going to make all the work, you and your partner still will have to do your part.
I’m glad you can come on in and open up an intro here on the forum. For shyness, Sam, I’d suggest IO and IShine. IO will bring out the bubblyness and the shyness is minimized. Others will feel more willing to talk and talk and talk. This is what you’d want to get from him as well as this will help your relationship!!!
IShine gets me in a good mood with others feeling good to be around me. I’d suggest that you look at AMMO, cologne strength, or TUTH for him. I would also suggest the same socials, IO and IShine for him first, then, after giving it a go with those to take down the shyness barrier, using AMMO or TUTH. TUTH gets me frisky with my wife, though, in my rare case, it doesn’t do anything for her towards me.
The shyness, up to the point of virtually no intimacy like that, I think socials would be the way to start. Because the way I see it, if you go directly to the TUTH, you or he may not be comfortable to take advantage of that sexed signal!
Post up on the women’s discussion group as well to get more advice from the gals on the forum!
I know many married women on this forum would be more than happy to offer their advice and tips if they haven’t already.
I would start simple for you with products like honesty for closeness and is/b to make you feel comfortable in your skin.
The ladies will probably mention another product which you can’t purchase here to drive him off the deep end.
If he is willing to try the products himself to attract you I do suggest Ammo for a confidence boast and to give of a strong, masculine vibe and shine when he gets then hang of ammo for a kick in the attractions department.
Besides pheromones you can try a number of things like role playing, putting on sexy lingerie and walking around the house to see if it would spark some interest.
Finding out what he likes is a nice way and IO & IH can help him to open up to you more.
